Just thought I'd share this thought with those of you who may not realize, but yet another way to screen a Provider for the aspect of compatibility, among other things, is to read her forum posts on the boards.  This can usually be obtained through a search engine's results when her name is submitted.  You'll be surprised at how much you can tell about a person by reading their blogs.  I'm glad to see most of you do your homework before selection, which I always encourage.  Just my oppinion.  Have fun & be safe!