I have to agree, there is no 1 set of criteria for a LTR with a provider.
Many have LTR with clients but still provide, some retire and become his "Mistress" of sorts.
It would depend on what YOU are seeking and if the provider is open to what you are seeking and have to offer in return.
I have a friend who is currently in a LTR "situation" with a client. They never set criteria upfront for the relationship and now he has a problem with the fact that she is still providing. Everytime she puts up a ad, he gets butt hurt.
I told her that if she agreed to be his "girlfriend" she should have told him an amount that she would be willing to be exclusive to him for.
For myself that amount would = around $750 a week with a 1 year commitment in writing.
I have seen many clients who wanted to "date" me later and I let them know that it was not an option unless __________________________ (fill in the blank) could occur. They changed their mind quickly realizing they would not be able to fulfill my needs.
Hey everyone. I am looking for some advice. I have seen many ladies over the past couple of years and have been thinking long and hard about getting into a (Long Term Relationship). I travel a lot and would love someone who could travel with me but also keep their home base. So here is where the questions come in....
What are the rules involved in a LTR?
Normal costs involved?
Does the provider still provide, or do they retire during the relationship?
Is there a minimum and maximum time limit to the relationship?
What else should I prepare myself for?
I want to thank everyone who takes the time to help me get a better understanding of this.
I not sure what "advice" you are looking for but, I feel these questions need to be discussed very openly and candidly with that provider. I would even document that in some way - almost like a prenup. If you fail to do that, I can assure you something will be misunderstood and you will be very disappointed one morning.....
I agree.. you and the provider need to be fully aware what is expected of the other. If you expect her to quit then you must be aware that if she is fulltimer you would need to take care of all of her income.. otherwise you cannot really expect her to be only with you. This could be a very complicated situation or it could feel very natural depending on the provider. Good Luck.
I have to agree, there is no 1 set of criteria for a LTR with a provider.
Many have LTR with clients but still provide, some retire and become his "Mistress" of sorts.
It would depend on what YOU are seeking and if the provider is open to what you are seeking and have to offer in return.
I have a friend who is currently in a LTR "situation" with a client. They never set criteria upfront for the relationship and now he has a problem with the fact that she is still providing. Everytime she puts up a ad, he gets butt hurt.
I told her that if she agreed to be his "girlfriend" she should have told him an amount that she would be willing to be exclusive to him for.
For myself that amount would = around $750 a week with a 1 year commitment in writing.
I have seen many clients who wanted to "date" me later and I let them know that it was not an option unless __________________________ (fill in the blank) could occur. They changed their mind quickly realizing they would not be able to fulfill my needs.
Unless you both are looking to get out of the business and plan some sort of future together, you are looking for trouble. I have helped a few providers on a personal level and never expected much in return except a special friendship. It was more a friends with benefits arrangement with some financial assistance but nothing set from a $$$ perspective.
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