here's the ripoff provider profile i posted a few days ago.. i erroneously posted that guys 'gave up' after 10 bad reviews


http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=52845

actually she has 2 active ads on eros which are costing her 100-150 a month each so apparently she's still getting clients.

10 out of 10 reviews over several YEARS each declaring her a ripoff, a profile labeled as a ripoff and she's still in business.

why ?

because the # of potential clients GREATLY outnumber the total supply of providers, of which, only a precious few are honest... . ..   you cant put a provider out of business whether she's honest or not.... not even with years and years of ripoff reviews. .....   there's the proof of that and she's not the only profile like that with active ads.

when you make up lies to try to damage the reputation of an honest provider, you only hurt yourself and your fellow hobbyists... if anything, the publicity will probably help her, especially if you are well known for having an agenda.

you deny other guys a good (and perhaps rare) experience and you damage your own credibility with anyone who knows her better or who decides out of curiousity (and believe me, they will)  to get to know her anyway.... other providers who know her better will probably refuse to see you.  providers dont want to see guys that talk trash about other providers, especially if they know the other provider is honest.

if you feel you need to warn others about a provider who in your opinion practices unethical business practices, by all means, please do help out your community..... but if you're just being vindictive, you need to grow up and realize that you will find the greatest success in life when you focus upon helping people you like instead of trying to destroy people you dont like.

It fascinates me that each one of these hobbyists posted a review of this provider yet apparently either did not read her previous reviews or chose to ignore them. It defeats the purpose of TER if you don't use the resource for your due diligence prior to booking a session. xbanker

Ana, darling, the Sheika noticed in one of this provider’s recent reviews that a client claims she threatened him with a Taser. If this is true, I assume she absconded with the donation, without providing any service at all. If this is the case, essentially, he was robbed. This practice violates much more than business ethics. Armed robbery is a very serious felony.

In my last post about this escort, I proposed--with some help on your part--a thumb nail sketch of this provider’s psychological profile. Putting it mildly, there is little doubt in my mind that she is a danger to herself and others. She is an extreme detriment to our community. She is everything we do not wish to be.

Now, we all need to focus on helping people.

But, at times, we need to focus on and expose the bad apples; this will benefit us all.

Sheika Fatima is genuinely concerned about this escorts seemingly atrocious antics. What is in her past? I wonder how and why she became the way she is; and, I wonder what form of rational she uses to condone her own behavior? Maybe if we knew these answers, we could help insure that whatever happened to her would not happen to others. Then, we would be helping ourselves. Then, we would be focusing upon helping other people.

I always enjoy your insightful post and helpful e-mails.

Loving regards,

Sheika Fatima
[email protected]  


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She is a danger to herself and others as well. Some day she may pull that taser on someone who will end up using it on her.

read her ads.

what does she offer ?

we cannot offer anything in our ads because of the restrictions placed upon us. some women use that to their advantage because they dont like men and they get pleasure from fooling them.

in her mind, she performed the service she advertised and regardless of whether or not the client is satisfied with the service, she feels justified she earned her money.

i dont agree with her but i know that is what they tried to teach me.  threatened to set us up with the law if they ever suspected we did anything else...

have you ever seen an ad that says the woman is just going to dance while you diy  ?

no.

what you define as cash and dash is what we are 'suppposed' to do per the law. as long as she shows up and stays the alloted time, the law says she is legit.  from a legal standpoint, she is doing the right thing.

you do not agree with the law

that doesnt give you the right to declare her a criminal or morally backrupt.

sheika, on a personal level i agree with you. i dont condone her actions at all. i didnt think it was right long before the review boards ever came into existence and thats why i went indy...  but she may be doing what she thinks is the right thing because the law tells us its the right thing.

in all industries there are those who focus on marketing and those who focus on customer satisfaction.   i  focus on customers satisfaction because thats the part i am good at and thats what gives me the most feeling of accomplishment in my business.

some people focus on the marketing part and dont care about making the customer happy because they are good at marketing.  i would rather give the money back than have a customer upset about paying it to me.  that would just make me feel like sh*t.  

for 2 years i told guys that paying me was optional but if they chose not to pay me, that they could never come back. there were no rates ever mentioned by me, not on my website, not on the phone and not in person...

i made damn sure they wanted to come back and believe it or not only a handful took advantage... when they did, it really made me feel like sh*t and every single one of the guys that took advantage actually tried to come back so i learned that i was being naive to think that everyone would play fair.

financially i did fine, emotionally it was too difficult.

so i dont agree with people who choose to use advertising that misleads or exaggerates but i dont think that makes them anymore criminally minded or dangerous or evil than your local car salesman or whoever writes those damn streak free window cleaner ads that always freaking streak.

just greedy.

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that was the point behind my post and i apologize for not making it clear, i was posting more hurriedly than i should.

at this very moment, she has 2 active ads on eros.  she has been in business for years despite the fact that every single review posted over the course of years is horrible.

you cannot ruin a providers business.
you can try but you will fail.

if you try to ruin a bad providers business you help your fellow hobbyists.

if you try to ruin an honest providers business you destroy your own credibility and you destroy your chances of seeing other providers who know that you tried to ruin an honest providers business.

i'm making this point because some asshats dont get the fact that i have been building loyalties for 5 years throughout the united states and europe with good service, kindness and generousity to both hobbyists and providers alike and their pathetic attempts to try to badmouth me are resulting in doors getting slammed in their faces.

grow up

if you dont like the fact that i tell the truth, too f*cking bad... but even if you could get rid of me and you cant even get rid of ms ripoff up there so i dont know why you would think you could, it wouldn't change the truth.

if you dont like the truth about yourself then i  suggest you focus on changing yourself.

Your posts are very informative and insightful. It would eliminate much confusion if providers were allowed to explicitly advertise the services they offer.

More explicit advertising would promote better business ethics and professionalism on the part of the provider and more realistic expectations on the part of the client.

Along with understanding and compassion, these are things that benefit our community.

Sheika Fatima is very busy today. I will write more, later.

As always, loving regards and peace.

Sheika Fatima
[email protected]

I admire your work ethic and professionalism.

IMHO, anyone who would want to get ride of you is blind to the light of day.

Please let me know about any "badmouthing". Maybe somthing can be done.

LOVE, PEACE AND COMPASSION,

Sheika Fatima
[email protected]

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I don't think anyone could have said it better if they tried! And I agree completely. By all means, share your bad experiences, but share them accordingly. If it was indeed bad work ethic, other people need to know what they are getting themselves into. But if it may have been a clash in personalities, as you may not get along with EVERY SINGLE person you meet, reguardless of how much you would like to, or there were certain areas you yourself were not satisfied in, that does not mean that who you saw is a bad provider, or that others will be unsatisfied as well.

"...YOU WILL FIND THE GREATEST SUCCESS IN LIFE WHEN YOU FOCUS UPON HELPING PEOPLE YOU LIKE INSTEAD OF TRYING TO DESTROY PEOPLE YOU DON'T LIKE." AMEN anabangbang!

i've found that sitting back and laughing at them while they destroy themselves to be very satisfying without all the work.

i'm sort of lazy that way. nevertheless, the strategy has yet to fail me.

i dont mind them badmouthing me cuz they have worked hard to rip alot of people off for many years so they are the best advertising money cant buy..

they sit around and complain that you cant trust the scores on reviews.. I WONDER WHY ..maybe if these people started scoring honestly, they could start trusting the scores ???

wild huh ?

LOL
i dont have time for people who are too stupid to figure out that you reap what you sow.

its real simple.

sheika thanks for caring more about helping the people in your community and less about profiting from them..
may it always reward you.  

party on people.