I'm pretty sure I already know the answer but for the sake of discussion lets ask anyway.  

Is some level of tipping a requirement or is it more of a bonus? And what would be a reasonable tip?

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I usually bring the ladies favorite flowers and/or beverage and frequently a monetary tip. Would most ladies prefer to skip the flowers and beverage and just increase the money? Money is all purpose but the flowers and beverage are more personalized. I'd like to know the sentiments of this group.

Although a glowing reference or a shiny new review are fantastic tips as well...nothing beats the feeling of a monetary tip.  Anyone who has ever worked in a service industry knows the feeling of an awesome tip.  I have found that the gentleman in other cities are far more generous and more likely to provide a tip or at the very least bring a gift as a tip.  Many of you gentleman like to make special requests for wardrobe, shoes, lingerie or a particular hairstyle...while I love playing dress up - it can be made far more special if you request my sizes and purchase the item in advance for me so that I know it is exactly what you were imagining.  A gift card to a major department store, lingerie store, or even a pre-loaded gas card would also be a wonderful tip.

My two cents!

Kisses

Maddy

Tipping is not required but of course is appreciated. I put in my email to all clients that Tipping is not required. I charge a flat rate and I do not upsell. In most service industries a 15 - 20% tip is appropriate so I would say if you feel better leaving a tip, tip in that range.

I would think it was very sweet if someone brought me flowers and a drink. I've had guys bring me different thing, my favorite was a beautiful bracelet from mr.fisher.

Many of these ladies charge more per hour than your doctor, dentist and lawyer do.  Do you tip these professionals who've spent a lot of time and money on schooling in order to be competent enough to take care of your needs?  I'm guessing no.  

So why should you tip a provider?  Sorry, if a lady making 300+/hr can't put forth her best effort during an appointment without the prospect of a tip, then she should find something else to do.   And clients who see ladies who believe that they are entitled to a tip are getting played IMO, because she definitely isn't enjoying herself as much as she says she is.  

For example someone at Maddy's price range should not be complaining about money at all.  I can't take her reasoning seriously either.  Being an independent provider is a very profitable job.  Marginal costs are low, so if a lady is able to cover her fixed costs (phone service, verification/advertising fees, incalls, etc), she nets a significant amount of money.  If accommodating special requests is too expensive, then don't do it unless the client is booking a multi-hour appointment. (Of course, Maddy, you probably don't need the business advice, but FWIW).

The only exception I would agree with is a top-notch provider who charges much less than the city average for comparable service.  This would be something outrageous like a 150/hour lady who gives the type of service that's normally worth 400/hr.

And they will tell you that its a service business like your waiter or waitress. But really how many waiters make $$$ to $$$$$ an hour. Most of the women are over priced as it is and you want to give them more money. Here's my tip=If you like the service, then book another date with them. Repeat business is the best tip you can receive.

and it doesn't bother me! Especially considering I've set my rates to put me in a place, financially, where I am content with what I am already receiving. I have mostly regulars filling up my schedule and that's the best tip ever (return business). I have several clients that I adore who buy me kinky toys and lingerie and heels, which we joke around and say are practical expenses. I have one client who doubles my rate from time to time but it's totally unexpected and yes I appreciate it immensely (who wouldn't?)

Tipping is appreciated but not expected. If I wanted more money I would just raise my rates (and that's not happening anytime soon). Tipping is definitely a BONUS; any amount would be reasonable.

My thoughts exactly.

I tell my provider friend " A ladies tip is me coming back for a repeat visit ".

Well, I am not a provider but I do have my thoughts on the tip subject.  I am on a hobby budget. As I am sure most guys are. I enjoy hobbying at least weekly and more when possible. My budget will only allow for up to a max of 250 per hour. That being said. most of the time I see ladies with a rate of 200 or less. So, If I have a great time which includes that I believe she had a great time as well. I will most always give a tip or take a gift or gift card on my next visit. I generally always take some kind of gift or surprise for my Atfs. I pay close attention to what types of gifts a lady may enjoy receiving. I do this by asking and observing different items in her incall. such as collectibles, candles, types of wines, etc. But as I said at the beginning I don't see providers over the 250 an hour rates so that leaves me with a little extra to show my appreciation.

I was early to an appointment recently so I stopped by the local convenience store to kill some clock. Knowing the provider is a bit of a health nut, I got us each a big bottle of water.  Didn't think anything of it.  

When I presented this to her she burst into tears. She said that's the nicest most thoughtful thing anyone had done for her in months. I was thinking this girl either needs new friends or hormone replacement ha ha. Made for some extra work to get back into play mode but she definitely made it up to me. All good.  

On subject, I throw in extra to the girls I think should/could charge more. It's complicated why I do that but it's just the right thing for me ymmv. The higher rates definitely not unless something unusual comes up like they extended their hours fir me etc.

A tip is a bonus, an extra thanks for extra great service .  
What's reasonable is entirely up to you.