1. Is sex more communication or recreation?  (If more communication, what is being communicated between a provider and a hobbyist?)

It's both depending on the partner. For instance, I love fucking JK we both laugh like hell. I have recreational sex with her, she could be called a fuck buddy. We communicate when we dine together or hang out together but the sex is pure recreation.

When seeing a provider who ouzes sex and has Passion, and you with her is communication. Great pasionate intense sex is great and raw lustful sex is being communicated. Only when things are a perfect fit does this happen and i'm lucky to have experienced it a dozen or so times. But that just my views

This is purely my opinion based on my current state of mind however fleeting or long lasting it shall be.

1. It can be either recreation or communication. This depends completely and utterly upon the two people involved. It can say anything from "Fuck my brains out" to "I love spending time with you" Clearly there are several extrememly complicated answers to such a question, I am just trying to be brief.

2. I personally believe thay are two different things. Ihave found myself mentally attracted to a person who physically was not my "type" and vice versa. It gets very tricky when you have a little of both playing into the situation, which is what normally happens. My line moves all over the place depending on the person I am with at the moment. I love what I do and occasionally you will run into someone who you feel you can move the line a little further with. That is why I adore my regulars.

3. Yes and no. If you allow it to become boring it will. If you repeatedly do the same thing over and over it will. You need to experiment and bring new ideas, toys, etc. into the situation to give it soem spice. Then again on occassion you will meet a person who you never have to try to make it "good" with, it just is and always will be. If you find them keep em around.

4. Only when you orgasm... LOL or if you are with someone who you genuinely love. True love can make you cry out for GOD and so can good sex. The key is not to confuse the two. I suspose it completly depends on you vision of spirituality.