Okay, I guess I need some help from the more experienced mongers here, lol. What am I doing wrong?  Here's the problem- Me- good looking guy in good shape, professional, 45y/o yadda yadda yadda- worldly and conversant in everything from real estate to scuba diving to sky diving to woodworking to engines.  Periodically involved in the hobby, have reviews, etc.  Very picky, but mostly looking for conversation and good times. Have been seeking someone to meet later evening  on 6/20 @ Ritz Carlton for drinks and fun... CAN'T GET ANYONE TO RESPOND TO MY EMAILS.  Ladies, I've tried all the so called named independants and I don't want to name names, but is it so hard to get a reply?  GEEEZ, I'm about to give up.  I won't love you, won't stalk you and you will have  a good time and anything after the cocktails is a bonus.  Like I said, WTF?  I think I may be in the wrong hobby. Anyone out there that meets this description, send me a p.m. Thanks.