That sucks. The reviews I see on her is pretty positive (though maybe a little luke warm). Biggest complaint seems to be DFK (which is a must with me). This guy generally comes off as a creep.
With time, Jennifer (whose pics are adorable, BTW) should build up a pretty nice review history, if she's all you say she is. I wish her luck and, if you took CC, might even book time myself.
Ok, first of all, Jennifer is a great young lady and her reviews reflect that. Secondly I prefer not to battle on the boards with a VERY well known and respected TER poster, (with over 70 reviews) whom this gentleman really is. All I can do is bring you the facts as I have them, and you can make a judgment for yourself. And at this point, I can only bring you the facts as presented to me from Jennifer, as this gentleman had not approached us with any type of information regarding her. So I have to take what she says as the truth and that this guy is trying to tarnish her, if not why had he not contacted us directly about her?
First of all, according to her, this guy PROMISSED to try to ruin her reputation after their relationship had soured. They had met through another agency, when she started in the business, from whom this gentleman has a VERY close working relationship with.
When I asked her about this post, I asked her to let me know exactly what had happened and not to hold anything back, nor in anyway mold the truth. She was VERY upset that he is still persisting in trying to hurt her! She sent me an email, and I would like to excerpt some of the highlights of this email to all of you. As Follows:
“I met him when I wanted to start working for X. I talked to the owner, X, and X said that X wanted to hire me but that I had to meet one of X friends first to make sure that I was a girlfriend experience. X told me that he would call me, and when he called he already knew my real name. He told me that we should meet near my apartment for coffee, talk, and then go to my place for an "appointment." I really wanted to work for X, so I agreed to it. We met at the Starbucks, and talked, and he went over all of the acronyms and everything.
Then we went back to my place, and then basically, he told me that in order to be hired I had to at least try Greek, which I didn't want to do, and that I should really think about offering BBFS, because all of the X girls did it, and I needed to do it too or I wouldn't make any money. I thought that it was completely idiotic, but I was 19, and I just wanted to make money and be able to take care of myself as well as possible. I told him that I wasn't comfortable with him putting things that I didn't offer, like Greek, in a review, because I didn't want anyone to expect it, but he did it anyway.
Basically, then, he would email and call me all of the time, and come to my hotel rooms in the morning, to give me coffee. He seems like a nice guy, and that he is trying to help, but he's just being sly. He would email guys and tell them that they should bring me alcohol because then they would get better results. The thing that xxxx’s me off even more is that he would tell people that they would get all these extra's without even tipping!
Then he started going to see me in all of the other cities I traveled to. I went to San Francisco, and he went too, I was there to see my ex, and just to work a few appointments to pay for the trip. Then he tells me that he wants to do an overnight appointment, which I wasn't up for, but he kept pressing, so I said yes. Then he tells me that I should go see X, but to just keep the money for the overnight. I tried to give it back, but he told me that since I wasn't the one canceling that I should keep it. Then he went and started telling people that I had stolen the money from him ( I didn't know about this yet). I have the emails somewhere, and I'll try to find them.
Also throughout this time, I told him that I was not comfortable seeing him as a client anymore, because he had become far too involved in my personal life, and was telling me that he loved me, and all kinds of other stuff. I told him that I wasn't willing to take money from him anymore, but I would continue to keep in touch over email and to get coffee from time to time. I was trying to keep from xxxxing him off.
Long story short, I was stupid, and he did me favors, and I accepted him. I thought that he was a genuinely nice person, but then he started to creep me out, and I tried to withdraw. I know that I took things that he offered, but I didn't take advantage of him.
He got angry when I tried to remove myself. Instead of just letting it go and realizing that sxxt happens, he decided to talk baddly about me. He told people that I was getting fat, that I hated men, that I wasn't a GFE at all any more, that I had taken money from him, etc. I'm not fat, I love my job, I am a GFE, and I didn't take any money that he didn't offer.
As you saw, I had great reviews from before, and the only ones that weren't great were because he told people that they were going to get services that I didn't offer. I don't feel that I should be held responsible for that. As I'm sure you know, there are quite a few clients that couldn't wait to see me again, I'd say that half of my clientele in Boston are people that I had seen before when I was Indy or with X. I think that says a lot. One of my guys flies to Boston just to see me. And then he saw me again last night. And the other client I had last night was someone I had seen before. I know that I'm not for everyone, but I don't think that every girl is. I think that I am good at what I do, and I'd hate to suffer because some guy has it in for me now.”
At this point, I am not comfortable passing any personal info (name, address, employment,alias', email addresses, phone numbers, etc) or his real TER Handle, or anything about this gentleman along at this point, either via email or backchannel. But I am asking him to refrain from trying to bash this young lady, tarnish her reputation (and ours along with it by representing her), and make it difficult for her to earn a living in this industry. I think in everyone’s best interest, this just went away in a Flash!
Please, just be a gentleman, as reflected in your reviews, and leave her alone!
Thank you for reading,
D.
That sucks. The reviews I see on her is pretty positive (though maybe a little luke warm). Biggest complaint seems to be DFK (which is a must with me). This guy generally comes off as a creep.
With time, Jennifer (whose pics are adorable, BTW) should build up a pretty nice review history, if she's all you say she is. I wish her luck and, if you took CC, might even book time myself.
This option will be available soon.
Jennifer (not the same Jennifer who is visiting)
Just let me know when!
OK, here we have a long, long post about a stalker, and almost no replies to some strong accusations, and one of the few replies gets modified to nothing after a short time. And I find it hard to believe that after 3 days that no one else has responded; or have they been moderated?
I remember this issue -- not personally, but only from reading about it on the DC boards a year or so ago, and from that can at least make an educated guess who the accused, and accuser, are. (OK, F%$k that; anyone who read the year old posts can guess who both parties are).
Long story short; a provider accused a hobbiest of attempting to denegrate her because said hobbiest crossed the line and fell for her, and the feelings were not mutual. Said hobbiest did write a nasty revew, which somehow, mysteriously, disappeared after a website was constructed which told the long, ugly tale regarding these two people.
Hobbiest did at one point post a one line apology regarding the situation, essentially saying, sorry if I gave the wrong idea to anyone, my bad. Not a word about all the --yes, I am assuming-- backchannel negative things that may have been said. Or the false review. Just -- sorry man. My bad.
I don't know the provider; never seen her, talked to her, or to be truthful, considered seeing her. No offense, she's not my type. But I have grown weary of reading the shill posts from the hobbiest on the DC board; one particular national agency, and one particular smaller agency -- and ad nauseum, a national coffee company --are constantly pushed by him.
Something is wrong here. Someone has messed with a woman's right to earn a living, and at the same time been shilling for providers who may or may not deserve it, but who all work for the same one or two people.
Can anyone explain (if this post even shows up)?
And, hobbiest, if I am wrong about any of this, and you can convince me so, I will post a full apology to you, publicly, and extend an offer to buy you a dinner at the DC restaurant of your choice, followed by a one hour session with the provider of your choice, all on me. Backchannel me, post on the board, whatever. But respond. With one more than one line.
I just haven't been available to approve posts.
thirsty
There are things going on in your personal life now that are difficult, my heart is with you. This board or any other board is justifiably the last of your concerns. Take care.
I want to address my next paragraph to you conspiracy theorists that pop your heads up from time to time, on many boards. Number one, is that even if you pay the pittance that TER asks non-reviewers to pay, if you are unhappy here, there are other choices, maybe you should avail yourself of them. I for one, have no desire to read your rattle trap theories, they are full of logical holes that you make no attempts to address. If you want to backchannel others that feel as you do, then do so and save people like me, an asshole by your account I am sure, from having to ignore the shit that you post. Set up a backchannel mutual grievance society, that should make you happy and give you some sense of accomplishment for your tiny little life.
But I read this post and I know who it is referring. I am posting this under an alias to protect myself from the same person. I had almost the same experience with him. Except that I am Indy and never worked for an agency. I finally told him where to go.
Gone in a FLASH