I am not even going to preface this with a declaration of hetro-ness, I dont need to.
Hitting or any other violence against anyone is NOT acceptable.
On the tranny topic, its pretty damned rare that anyone seeing a tranny is being surprised, they do not advertise as women, and from all the ads in city paper, they seem to have enough of a following without tricking anyone. The days of the very friendly 'gals' on Broad St south of the Hershey Hotel and roaming the meat packing district in NYC are long over. Maybe venues like this have been very helpful in that regard....fewer surprises.
But back to topic-gay bashing-not cool (and yeah, trannys are gay guys, not women...if wishing and dressing the part made us what we wanted to be, Id be Russell Crowe by now.)