So, yes guys may certainly have all their woes and horror stories of the hobbying world, as well... and to those appts I have missed (mostly due to uti's most recently or back in 07 the alcholic ex boyfriend)- us ladies have our own and I rarely share them.
Due to my 200 plus phone calls a day and my upcoming penthouse spread- quite a few gentlemen have mentioned raising my rates or only seeing affluent overnight or dinner date/ multiple hour clients... yadda yadda yadda. Which makes sense in some parts but not in others. I met what everyone would view as an "affluent, extremely wealthy gentleman" who I had a few long outcall dates with including dinner dates when this past night he asked me to spend the evening. I had another gentleman who wanted my company and he sounded very nice, but I was a little tipsy (not too bad) and the customer I was with had asked me for an overnight before.... so he asked again and I obliged thinking I know him quite well and he's such a gentleman, yadda yadda yadda. Well we are watching a movie & relaxing, and while I am sipping water he is downing vodka and continues to get more and more obnoxious. I didn't want to walk out on him at 2 in the morning so I figured we'd just fall asleep and he would be fine in the morning. Surely, he is a TER white list and had  great references, and like I mentioned we had wonderful times before. Well as we're trying to sleep at 2:30 am he keeps grabbing me and poking me and being obnoxious and cursing (using the word fuck and cunt) and finally I just said "can you please stop!" and he replies" get out of my bed"- so I with delight I said "my pleasure!!! I am leaving". I didn't even take the money for the extra time... so as I am leaving he comes out and is yelling" where the fuck are you going????" all drunk, grabbing me and pulling me inside, grabbing me by my hair, he scared the living hell out of me. Finally I said "I call the police let me go" and he said "call the police then!!!" then for whatever reason, he let me go and I ran like hell out of there.

So as to affluent gentleman- yeah I wasn't robbed or busted- but heaven knows how scared I was and still am. I never thought about the possibilities of what could happen to me- but he could of killed me and who would have known... someone I trusted and thought I knew??? The one woman who was an escort who wrote in Playboy a year or so back wrote about it correctly. She kept her rate average for how beautiful and popular she was, but she said the more money they have the worse they tend to be. Of course, when you lower your rates- providers get an even worse clientelle, as well. I just felt that this guy thought he had the world in his palm because his folks were billionaires and he could afford a driver at 3 am to pick him up a candy bar. Anyhow, I felt it was time for a provider to show her standpoint. Needless to say, the majority of the men I see are gentleman or I would never be doing this- I love the thrill of making someone happy and being sensual at the same time (the uti's that come a bit more frequently (and all you girl's know) are a pain) but I LOVE being an escort. It's just so scary sometimes- you have to worry about the cops, what other guys rate you as, what other jealous providers may be saying about you, how to hide your job from your friends and family, and for the first time for me truly being physically abused, not just emotionally and mentally by clients. Just my rant for the night cause it scared the begeezuz out of me.... any ladies who want his info let me know. And everyone- lay off the alcohol... it will never solve your problems.

you post this asshole on some provider DNS lists.  Dangerzone, National Blacklist, and others. You also  should post his info on the provider board here on TER!

Thank GOD all you have are bad memories of this asshole. As you stated it could have gotten alot worse. I agree with FUZZY , make sure you post this idiot's info on all the DNS lists and blacklists. The next girl might not be so lucky.

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Tiff,
I am sorry to hear about your horror. I am glad you got away unharmed. Yes, this can be a scary business. And when things like this happen, I feel it is very important to let others in the biz aware of an idiot like this.

I would love to have his info VIA PM if you would. As you and others know, I have a responsibility for all my girls safety and well being.

Thankyou in advance and god bless.

George of Philly Companions.

Glad to hear you got out OK!  It just goes to show you that not every millionaire with a wad of cash to throw around is a good guy.

Sometimes us blue collar guys who work our ass off for a few extra bucks to spend on our favorate ladies tend to appreciate them a little more.

sorry to hear about that tif, hope you are okay.

Hi, Tiffany- Glad that you weren't hurt.  Someone like that could have really done some horrible things to you. Hope you are better and maybe one of these days I can get to see you. All the best to you.

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on another board in NNJ.  Fortunately, that story contained neither physical nor verbal abuse.  However, the complaint was tantamount to emotional and financial manipulation by a wealthy client.  The guy had a history of NC/NS but also a history of some good times with multi-hour sessions.

The guy had signed up for a multi-hour doubles session, rescheduled, then flaked via NC/NS..ruining the day for both ladies.  High risk/high reward with some of these "upper class" guys.

I'm glad you are okay, Tiffany.  I worry about you girls sometimes and hate to hear how some assholes have to put you ladies through scares like this.  

Besides being wealthy, the other contributor to this might be the booze.  Stay away from guys who have been drinking.

Thank God you're okay.
Make Love not War - that's what I'm here for!
Why a man would act like that is totally foriegn to me.  Must be a deep rooted personality flaw that surfaces with the booze.

I'm glad you are ok! Please be careful you are my favorite provider and a good friend. Your an angel giving your clients heaven here on earth and you had a angel with you that night! Be cautious ALWAYS! God Bless you always........
Johnny

Tiffany, I'm so sorry to hear about your horrible experience. I am so glad that you were able to get away, and are ok. It scares me to think these type of guys are out there on the street. I could not imagine ever treating someone as sweat as you in this way.  I am new to hobbying, and I look forward to experiencing a wonderul time with you in the near future! Please be careful!!

I constantly hear the complaints of the potential concerns of screening/giving info to agencies or providers.

That is such MINOR shit compared to what the potential, rare as it may be, of what may happen after the door closes and the provider and hobbyist are left alone.

But it happened to you, Tiff, and I hope you recover from this without too much damage and take the necessary steps to keep this schmuck away from any further involvements.

Tiff, I'm glad to hear that you made it out okay. It's guys like this that ruin it for the rest of us. Be safe.

Tiffany, I was shocked to read this post. You know I think fondly of you and we've talked a bit about the downside of your profession. You handle yourself so well but I do worry for you a bit since getting to know you, because there's a lot of risk in that life and you're out there alone most of the time. I'm just so glad you got away from that guy okay!

I've had a few friends who turned out to be "Instant Asshole: Just Add Alcohol"--didn't hang around them long. It's amazing how people can act very cool and easygoing but after a few drinks the real them comes out and it's seriously ugly. For your safety you may want to set a "two drink maximum" ground rule and if the client gets too drunk you look for the exit.

Be safe. Best wishes to you beautiful...

I am glad tiffany that you are okay I hate to see when men act like ass holes or a big a shot . The bad one ruin it for the rest of us good guys. We know how to treat a lady and have fun .

Sorry to hear this horror story, but I am so glad your ok and that you stood your ground. Also, never worry about what other say, be you and be safe!

Again, glad your ok and remember most of us(men)don't treat ladies that way!!

BJBHM2

It does not take away from how shocking it was to me... especially due to the fact that I knew him so well and trusted him very much.It also brought back such awful memories of my ex boyfriend- that was the hardest to shake. But Thank you all, I am glad nothing worse happened and everyone please be safe out there. It's 1% of the time that something like this happens ( I have only had one incredibly awful stalker instance), but I guess there is a line between being too friendly and getting too comfortable.
I think sometimes I get so friendly with some gentlemen they may take it a bit too far... anyhow it's over! Phew!

it was for only one encounter - but it was a very sweet encounter, and I was enchanted by your innocence.  rant?  this is a rant?  several things make this so not a rant it is not funny - first, you are correct in that you were in physical harm.  Second, you've every right to lay out the details of all - including your own culpability... which I like.

This is the danger of this business... I do not do overnights (with the MAJOR exception of two very special ladies)... one I civie dated and the other I would only hope to date! lol!  and she knows who she is - I have asked her advice on various topics... and she has helped me with some issues...  but I do not do it because overnights tend to interfere with the fantasy.... sleeping with someone is NOT the same as having sex with them... to me, it is much more intimate for you are unconscious in the presence of another... that is- you are helpless while they may not be...

the lady that I did an overnight with, when I asked in the morning "did I snore" she laughed and stated, "no, but you do talk in your sleep!"

safe?  yea, right, but who knows what I would say!  Fortunately I do trust the lady in question... for I think that she is the bees knees!  Tiffany - you are too good to be treated in the manner you were treated, please... be very careful... for as I said, we met all too briefly, but you are a very special person to this old Bizzare one!  I wish you well in all that you do - and I feel privaledged to know you!