So i've been doing this a few year and nothing bugs me more that when a provider fudges her age.  Usually when they say they are in their upper 30's they are in their mid to late forties and I've seen a couple that have said that they are in their mid forties and they were well into their fifties. One came right out and said it when i arrived that she was 54, yet her ad and web site said early forties.  Its to the point that i just don't trust it anymore.   Its to the point that once they get to 35 i am assuming they are 10 years older.  As an FYI, the one who told be she was 54 was actually very good, but i was bummed about it the whole time because she wasn't honest.

Your last review is not for a local girl, I mean woman. Please post a review of the provider that gave you incorrect information about her age, so that the Philly community knows.

Seriously, this is a surprise for you?  This may even be more stunning: the younger girls also lie about their ages.  Many 27-29 year old girls will post 22-24 years of age.  The span only becomes greater as the years mount up.  It must be an offshoot of the infamous hooker math.

Between the pics, reviews and bc, this really shouldn't be an issue. Possible you are not doing your homework?

I don't always contact reviewers if their are enough positives out there.  Just one of the things that bug me about the hobby i guess.  

It's not a surprise, sometime i really like a providers profile and the reviews look good, only to find that when i get there its an older woman and a lot of the times they'll acknowledge it readily once your in the door.  For me the age thing is 50.  I know they all stretch the truth i'm in my 40's myself and don't really want to spend hundreds on someone that's 50 plus unless i know that going in.

That doesn't bother me as much as the airbrushed photos. Expecting Beyoncé and getting Shrek.

That's where you get the real deal re: age, looks, menu options, etc.

Do your home work son! LOL

If it were working for him he wouldn't be posting that he is having such a problem with finding old broads who are not just older than advertised, but MUCH older.

I know that you THINK that simply skimming posts works for you, but trust me it doesn't. PLEASE try actually reading and absorbing a post, question or comment before responding and then maybe we can take the BSC out of your name. lmao

because you said so? Sorry Jack, but how can you give that kind of advice without any verification of yourself here. I'm a bit confused. Why don't you post with your 'real' handle so everyone can take your advice a bit more seriously especially the OP. Just sayin' Jack. Come on. Not even you can argue that argument. Although I'm sure you'll find something to bow out of your corner.  

If you want my opinion on the wonderful backchannel system, it's for those gents here who do it quite OFTEN and don't even buckle up and meet with the women they are inquiring about. They do it just to do it if you will. Like catty old women getting in everyone's business lol. They are the ones who talk about it all the time like Mr. Jack here trying to brainwash you all that that's the ONLY way to get the skinny on the real ladies here. Come on. These are the guys who need someone to hold their hand to make sure they're getting what they pay for lol. Ridiculous if you ask me. That's what I thought the review system was for as well as our rankings here. lol Are you telling me you don't trust them then afterall LOL? Well isn't that an interesting twist of events...again.  

I thought the gents here are the one's who rule this roost. It is a man's review forum, isn't it? Jack, perhaps you need to do your homework son.

T xx

To the OP....stick to what works for you. I think you'll do just fine continuing to do the research on your own. God knows I wouldn't trust what a woman had to say if I was selecting a gentleman lol. Everyone's eyes and experiences are different. It is no way to gauge how your time will be or what she looks like on any level IMO. You're asking guys who you don't know from Adam. How can you even trust that either? I wouldn't. This is an individual/independent based industry for both parties involved no matter how either parties do their homework. That's the bottomline.  

that is part of the issue.  agreed!

If you're a hot 50 or 60 Yr old . Who really cares if you've said you're 43 or 38 to get them in the door? Why does it matter at the end of the day ? Who really gives a shit ? When your hot your hot ! Why does age play such a important role to some of you? It's not like you are going to be our life partner for the rest of our lives ? So why the hard probe investigation?

 
When ever we get touchy about it ,and you  say " Well it's no big deal " . Don't be so serious !  And we lighten up.

You guys start up again with the age bullshit...and then with the ..iit really doesn't matter bullshit .....you guys just need something to bitch about .  

I've never really paid very close attention to a persons age . If they look and act age appropreaite then I'm pretty easy going and even when it's not determined I'm usually cool with it . As are most people I know.

So what is the big ta do over nothing ? I just don't get it ?

What's the big deal?

Ever shop online? Do you trust whatever it is you're buying based upon the visual representation is going to be what you get? Of course you do. Let's say it's a shirt. And when it shows up and it doesn't look like what you saw online, maybe the color's different, maybe there are rips or tears you weren't expecting, are you satisfied? happy? You think this is different?Sure, you can still put the shirt on and wear it...and it will cover you, probably just fine....but it's not what you saw, ie not what you really wanted.

 Age? It usually goes hand in hand with the visual representation. Someone who lies about their age is usually doctoring their photos or showing very old ones or generally deceiving the would-be buyer about what that shirt is going to look like when he opens the door. it's bait and switch. Period.

If it's 'no big deal', then they should  stop lying and own it.

"..or a 60 Yr old". lol.  

Just generally speaking, make sure when you crop out your head... you go to the bottom of your neck. There's a lot of tell-tales all the way up from there. You know, if you are trying to disguise your age.

Lol, lol, lol! Ugh... Fucking lol 😝

 Trust me if you see me in the flesh . My excess neck skin is the last thing you will be noticing. , if it's noticable at all

At any rate , I just find it amusing . That  one minute it matters and the next it doesn't .  

At the end of the day if a women  is hot ! Who cares how old she is. ? As long as she can hold a intelligent conversation and be a equal contributing factor in her relationships

Why is it that a women some how loses merit after age 39 ?  

Put out to pasture at age 40 .  

Then forgotten .

No matter how beautiful and viberant she is After 40 she is still considered past her prime.  

Side note: Thx for the advice on photoshop

that I did not need , but thank you away .  

I'm very confident my abilities are more than transparent.  

Some would say I guess,  I do alright for a skinny white girl . 😝

Moo ,!!!

The Skinny Cow !  

Inside joke 😜😌 -- Modified on 3/12/2015 4:07:53 PM

Crap I knew there was something I forgot to address ! Ownership !!!  

What exactly is it that you want me to own ? Being hot as hell at my age or just my age ? Loll lol, lol, lol, blah blah blah.. Butt crack

 
I mean seriously do I have a chioce ?

I own it every time July 23 rd comes around on the calendar

Full ownership taken !!!  

Happy ?

You guys are sooooo cute ! Mauh ;" from the old broa

owned it. Not until you say how old you are. So? If it's 'no big deal"....tell us? How old are you??

You're hot as hell, right..so....just tell us.

You can't really think it's ok to lie about your age and assume because, in your own mind, you're hot that whoever booked you under that false premise won't have buyer's remorse. Maybe you're hot...for a 60 year old. But not the kind of MILF hot, in a 40 year old kinda way, the guy booking you was looking for.  

I think if you're advertising that you're a 'hot MILF/cougar" in your 40's (your TER description has 35-40) and you're late 50' or 60's, that is just wrong. Not unless you give the guy a heads up and make sure he's ok with it when you make arrangements. If I buy milk I want the date on the carton to be accurate. It's no different.

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This is the point i was trying to make earlier but was explained much better here.  Thank you

AAAHHH my favorite masseuse that i have never seen.  How often do you come to the philly area??

Checking my dates now and will be placing an ad on the board so be on the look out.
I will book fast so don't delay. I would love to stroke you

I don't know how these guys can even argue with your points. You have made excellent points.  And I'm surprised and disappointed to see that you were the only one on the board trying to make these points. I'm jumping in a little late but I want to let you know that I support your opinions.  

Why in the world do we have this review system if it can't be considered at least for the most part reliable?  I have read plenty of reviews that say this person looks older than her photos. I don't know very many guys who would not say something like that if it were true.  

I have had guys say to me, "you post that you are 40-45, therefore you must really be 55 because everybody knows ladies say they are at least 10 years younger than what they post"...wrong.  I've also had more than one person say to me, "you've been on TER for six or seven years, you say you are 40-45 so we must add however many years you've been on TER (7) to the posted Age (45) to get an accurate age of 52 at least"...wrong again.  

First of all, the last thing I want is for someone to show up to the door and be disappointed in how I look. Secondly it's very easy to contact TER and asked them to change something on the profile like the age range or the rates or anything else. I keep my profile current because I want everybody to know who I am and what they can expect when they come to see me.

I don't want to say what my actual age is. I prefer to say that I am over 40 because there might be a 25-year-old who feels okay about seeing someone who's 40 but not 45 or there may be a 70-year-old who wants someone who's 45 but not 40.  I don't lie about my age but I also do not specify exactly what it is.

So far everyone has been content to read the reviews, see the current photos, and make an educated guess as to what I really look like. My reviews tend to start with "I look like my photos", or even "I look better than my photos".  Maybe it's the non-VIP guys who are not getting the information they need from their reviews? Could that be the case, I wonder

This is a terrible thread.

Ive added a few names to my personal "do not see" list.

Geez.

Nothing to be offended about.  Simply put, I don't appreciated seeing picture on a web site that is 8 years old or airbrushed and the provider telling me she is 42 and when i get there she is 55.  I guess you could be offended if that's what you do.  But if you are honest with your age and your pictures then you are doing a great thing.

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