As someone else stated on the very long "macy" thread, I don't pay much attention to the message boards anymore, namely because of threads like that. I find it funny that people who have never even met me are discussing their opinions as to my needing medication, even saying that I was in rehab. I agree with what someone else said as to there being two sides to every story. This is absolutely true, however, I don't feel the need to go ranting on about every unfortunate situation I experience on a message board. Yes, I can be abrasive at times-it is usually warranted. All I ask for is mutual respect. As far as me turning away a date....THAT IS MY RIGHT! I have every right in the world to turn someone away for any reason. I turn people away for a number of reasons...age, stature, manners, dialogue, even intuition on my part. NOW, to address the final issue: I did recently have a minor medical procedure. I stated on my website before my absence that it was impending as well. Unfortunately it turned into an emergency situation and it happened earlier than scheduled. I have also healed earlier than anticipated and am resuming my schedule next week. I am sorry that many of you were seemingly unaware of this but being it a personal issue, I didn't feel the responsibility to publicly state it for the sake of anyone else's peaceful slumber. Posts like that are just ridiculous.
Macy - I am just my 2cents for what it's worth. I agree that it is your choice as to whether you see someone or not for whatever reason and I am sorry to hear that you had some medical issues which obviously is hard to deal with.
However I think someone mentioned that if you were going to not want to see anyone...maybe you could have just turned your phone off.
Again, just my 2cents but it's entirely up to you on how you handle your business matters
Just a thought here; a valid one. Perhaps the caller became offensive and insulting when he was declined an appt? Its a known fact that some gents can become downright vulgar and insulting when their requests are not honored. Im not taking sides here, just curious as to if her 'rude phone manner' was provoked? Its a fact that many ladies have been subjected to some pretty offensive remarks and name calling from some gents who feel 'jilted'.
As the original poster that unfortunately started this mess, I had thought I would now stay out of it. First a caveat, I did not write my post to impugn Macy. I don't know Macy, and have never seen her before. I merely highlighted my experience and wondered if anyone could give any insight.
Macy is correct, there are two sides to every story. I have no idea what was happening in Macy's life at the time I called, and will not speculate. I apologize that a few people have taken a simple question and turned it into an opportunity to attack you. You will note that in my original post I did not attack, disparage, or offer any negative commentary.
I only now felt the need to respond given Lady BJ's post that perhaps the caller was rude or put off in some way, and became verbally abusive with Macy. I know she is likely just "sticking up" for Macy and I respect that, however, in the process it denigrates me by implication. So I just want to set the record straight that no unkind or cross words were spoken by me. In fact, I never received the chance to even request an appointment, as literally about 10 words came out of my mouth, which consisted of identifying myself and asking to speak with Macy (I never assume that the person that answers is indeed the person that you are trying to get in touch with). At that the conversation was concluded (see afore mentioned posting).
Lady BJ-you may not have looked at my handle before writing your post. However, we have communicated in the past (although I have never had the pleasure of meeting you) and if you remember our previous communications, you will see that I am always polite and respectful.
If my proverbial "two cents" are worth anything, may I suggest that we just let this die here and move on with our lives. It’s really rather silly at this point.
I posted a note under the original "blast," hoping that my actual experience with you would quell the irate tone of the posts.
There are always two sides to every story... and now I would like to provide another view of you. One night I scheduled some time with you. You were very nice and accepted the appointment. About 90 min before the appointment, I could not find my car keys. I searched madly for them and finally knew that I had to call you. You could not have been nicer... in fact, I honestly had the feeling that had I asked, you would have come, picked me up and brought me home! You were just that nice to me.
Sad to say, that night got worse... I arrived home at about 2 AM... and had to get up at 5 AM to get back to work on time.... only to find my keys in a separate room at work... I placed them there in my haste to see you, and forgot where I placed them.... but to me, on that night you were ever so kind. I hope that you get better, and that I may meet you under better circumstances for both of us.
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