The whole onslaught directed at Macy in the thread below doesn't change my opinion of her. I met her several weeks ago and found her to be absolutely delightful, charming, funny, smart and a hot bundle of fun energy.
If it sounds like I'm kissing her ass can you blame me? She's got a great one to kiss! That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
Come here Macy and let me pucker up for that beautiful derriere of yours.
Thank you, sweety. I know I talk too much sometimes but at the same time, this is a discussion board and that's what it's here for. On another discussion board, about 80 posts went up completely bashing me. I was a completely cruel thread and whether or not it may seem it sometimes, that kind of anger can be very hurtful, not to mention that most of those people have never met me. I was so mad that I took this whole week off and completely ignored the board. I don't associate with rude people because what we ladies deal with in the hobby can often be exhausting and difficult enough already, not to mention often scary. Alot of people forget that. When a provider gets treated like that she begins to actually fear for her safety. Stalkers are bad enough. Or people cursing you out because you won't meet them for WHATEVER reason. I find it inherently suspect when some insecure people hide behind the anonymity of the internet to treat strangers like this. It's sad too. It's also funny how most of the people who HAVE actually met me and have insight are the ones who have positive things to say. Giving rude people any more attention no longer interests me. By the way, I'm posting a new schedule soon for next week. I've moved on now. I'll also be posting regarding my retirement. So if anyone still wants me to "shut the hell up" as posted below, you might want to direct your attention elsewhere.
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Is this a discussion board or a support group?
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and she STILL has not answered the question as to why she stood people up last Friday!!!!!!
If you feel so strongly simply mark her off of your list. No reason to continue.
Shit happens.... its apart of this hobby.
last Friday I had a confirmed appt with a CL girl with incredibly hot pics. NC NS....you know that I did I called someone else. I don't even remember her name right now.
Just say next ...
Your not going to sway anyone's opinion of Macy. Those of us that have cum to love her know that you take the good with the bad. In my experiences the good are VERY good and the bad are few.
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Truth hurts, don't it??
totally ignores the issue that started this. Her standing up guys(notice I said plural) last Friday in Princeton. Not even the courtesy of one phone call.
Because it is between the TWO appointments I scheduled that day (not many more like has been posted in some places. One reason, however, is that I had taken notice to the fact that the first is way too high strung for my tastes, and also, by the way, has lied about a number of things that happened that day. I'm not going to perpetuate his lunatic behavior. Second appointment...While I was resting up for later that night at about 3:00pm, he started calling me leaving me obnoxious messages about the fact that I had not given him the location yet for a 7:00pm engagement, which I don't think was outrageous on my part. These two people know each other from another board, and have turned around and posted an exorbitant number of messages about me now, taking no responsibility for their own actions, lying about the ACTUAL events, and being downright nasty, and turning the fiasco into a little boy sausage party, which I say because many people who have absolutely no personal knowledge of me have joined in on the nonsense. So, I feel that by finally letting that out I am being the bigger person because I don't even feel that any courtesy on my part should be expected from me towards those people. I'm really only speaking up to the ones out there that haven't lowered themselves to their low level of maturity. I am sure that by posting this now, it will give them another week, or two, or longer to continue. MOVE ON! People are sick of hearing about it!
very Interesting. Delusional, but interesting.
I'd rather attend my very own private Macy's Parade!!!
Macy, you know you count with those of us who know how to conduct themselves like men.
...christoph is correct...move on! I saw Macy twice (check out her reviews for my first visit) It was perhaps my best experience while hobbying! The second time we saw each other it was a totally different experience, was it b/c I was expecting too much? There wasn't any connection at all the second time & I was very disappointed.
I had lots of stuff going on in my life at the time & I know that she did too...so I chalked that visit up as a "loss" but I didn't write a bad reveiew or run to the boards cursing anyone, I moved on...
This certainly doesn't make me any better/worse than anyone else here, and it doesn't excuse the reason for her not answering why she stood guys up without a phone call last week either...but that decision is for her to make whether she answers that or not.
And it's our decision as hobbyists to kick a dead horse or to move on.
But the problem is you need to post when you have a bad expereince, not just when you have a good one. She only has good reviews on here and I know there are guys that had bad experiences with her as well. We as hobbyists need to know "BOTH" sides, both good and bad so we can make informed decisions.
...but again,the problem with that bad experience was that I very well may have contributed to that...it was shortly after my father had passed away, fairly unexpectantly and I had a helluva a lot going on. I didn't want to give her the entire blame for the experience,of course I guess I could've mentioned that in the review? Point made & well taken, swing...
Damn, Macy sure gets her fair share of abuse on this board. Can't we cut her some slack every once in awhile?? Afterall she is human...Macy your are human right??
I can't believe what I'm reading. I'm not questioning that there may have been mistakes made, but we've all made them. the fact that two guys had a problem within a very short period of time would indicate to me that Macy could have been having a rough go at the time. I have seen Macy at least a half a dozen times. Did all of them happen without a hitch? Probably not but Macy has always made things right. If she failed to notify you guys, I feel your pain and Macy would proabably admit it too if she wasn't backed into a corner. Give the woman a break. She has a lot of fans and her positive reviews and performances should mitigate these isolated incidences. Please give it a rest already.
I am in no way excusing Macy's actions. I am curious on how she could NC NS multiple guys in one day. What I mean by this is simple.
If I have an appointment to see a provider on Monday. I call that provider several hours before my appointment. I MUST be in contact with her before I leave my home to go to the appointment. If I do not reach her and she does not contact me I assume for whatever reason she cant make the appointment. Providers cancel tours all the time. Yes it would be good if they took the time to personally contact us back and let us know they cant make it. The facts are sometimes they don't. You guys have posted that she didn't show up for her incalls for that day. You have done your job as hobbyist and have informed all the men on this board that Macy didn't show.
I am glad that Ryche was MAN enough to look at his session from the outside in and recognize that "it takes two to tango" and have a great session. I remember writing a review on a lovely young lady Gigi was her name. http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=72844 I had looked at her pictures on EROS and IN MY MIND had made her out to be a barely 20 something sexual goddess. her pics were accurate, her ad was not misleading, IT WAS ME. I had an average session with a beautiful woman because I had built her up in my mind to be somebody she was not. MY DISSAPOINTMENT was self induced and in return my session sucked. This was not Gigi's fault . When I looked back she was absolutely perfect but because my mind was fugged up I ruined the session.
My point is simple. You get out of a session what you put into it. Sometimes we have to check within ourselves and ask did I do everything I could to make sure I had a great session. I am glad Ryche had the wisdom and maturity to realize that he may had not been at his best, and was willing to share in the responsibility for not having a good session.
show of hands boys...when chris said "You get out of a session what you put into it"..who thought 'put INTO it ???, Mother@*%*, I put 300.00 into it!!!" or who thought how their boss or client doesnt give two @#*%s if youre cranky or wallowing in your destructive relationship. Self flagelation ISNT the sign of a 'man', Chris. There are some disgruntled CUSTOMERS who were using this board as intended and were civil about it. If you let every other entity you do business with treat you that way, youd have an a-hole the size of trump's helepad. Lets torque down the amount of emotion we attach to all this.
Is it not okay to give someone the benefit of the doubt? Whether you put 0, 300 or 3000 into it? I had a shitty session, part of which was her fault, no doubt...but a certain part of it I took responsibility for, what the hell is wrong with having that happen and deciding not to post a bad review?
As for emotion, and how much of it we attach to hobbying...hell, that's as subjective as choosing which provider you want to see. Not everyone hobbys for the straight sex alone.
Just to review, I am in no way, shape or form trying to run to Macy's defense here...NCNS a bunch of guys is totally unacceptable...and choosing not to answer for it makes it worse, but that's between her & the guys she stood-up...and it's for the rest of us to assign a weight to her answer or non-answer when considering calling her again.
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goya 1 and Ryche99 you both are right on. She should be held accountable for her actions instead of the "usual suspects" kissing her a** and apologizing for her. No wonder she is so brazen.
Lets disect it shall we?
"show of hands boys"
Should be only Men and Women in this room. Then again the tone of that post was quite boyish. Kinda sounded like my 17yr old son .
"I put 300.00 into it!!!"
So I suppose because you PAID for it its ok if you treat a lady like shit and are a jerk durring the session and forgot to brush your teeth that day and your breath smelled like your ass . You should have a great GFE session with all the BBBJTC and DFKing you can handel..... because "I put 300 into it"...lol
"There are some disgruntled CUSTOMERS"
Good grief!!! this isnt the customer service desk at WALMART.
Also you are not a CUSTOMER untill you meet the lady. Most of the complaints are because they did not meet the woman...
Lastly....
"using this board as intended "
Maybe I am wrong but the board should be used for shareing useful information. Not just bitching ,complaining and whinnig when things do not go as planned. If you do a quick search of my handel you eill find that is exactly what I do. I try to share useful info.
Ok, first, 'boys'..lets not put too much stock in the coloquial, you sure wouldnt like that. Second, there's a LONG distance between the hygene that I THOUGHT could be taken for granted and the sort of mental and emotional preparations you seem to suggest above. Walmart? who in real life lets you get away with such black and white (oh god, lets not go THERE) comparisons... dress it up as you like, its a service business and you simply wouldnt tolerate that service from other people you do business with. That, Chris, is my point, I mean, c'mon, I dont even need to know what you do for a living to know that you cant behave the way some ladies do and keep you job or clients. And none of this is about Macy, from my view, its about the pretzel logic that excuses the inexcusable and brings introspection to an artform. That said, Of Course I appreciate you reviews. And listen to your 17 year old son.
Oh, so telling both sides isn't useful? I had NCNS TWICE. And I tried POLITELY, not 'obnoxiously' to find info. You people who blindly accept things crack me up.
No one blindly accepts. What's the alternative? If it bugs you so much don't call her. I'm not going to beg to see anyone not will I be treated like a fool. Any relationship is based on a little trust. In Macy's case I choose to trust her judgement and accept it. It is my business as to whether I call her again. I'm not going to trash her on the boards for a lapse in judgement. Let cooler heads prevail and I'm sure you will work it out. Can we all just get along? jeeez!
Why have a party of course.
Woah, woah, woah... what is all the fuss about??? There is always a cloud surrounding Macy for whatver reason. Fact is that she is a great provider. I'm sure that she has her share of confrontations with clients, other providers, etc... It's the business she's in. If she refused to see someone; isn't that her right?? I have seen Macy a few times now and I will be one of the guys that will miss her when she's gone. Reliable, great service and beautiful. Everyone is entitled to an opinion.
If this is continuing, so will I. Sure, providers can refuse to see us. Up front, NOT after agreeing on a time and doing a NCNS. Twice! And then flat-out lying (Yes, lying) about the circumstances. Am I overracting? Could be, but I just irks me to see automatic judgements taking place here. And let's keep things to the central point: Not only was she a NCNS to multiple people, but she refuses any responsibility in the matter. If she had done what she promised (calls the day of appt) or responded to POLITE calls to confirm, then this whole thread doesn't exist. Simple as that.
Macy, if you are retiring, I still wish you well and hope you can indeed resolve at least some of your issues.
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The bottom line -- acknowledged by Macy herself -- is that she nc/ns two guys on the same day. Having done so, she did not call them & apologize. When people raised it on the local board -- the only possible venue -- she ignored them, until she finally lashed out at them (but still did not apologize).
She can be the greatest provider in the world. And if she wants to cancel on someone, that's her choice, obviously. But in any line of work common courtesy would dictate that she would call the client before the appointment and tell them she was canceling, for whatever reason (in this case, the reasons are pretty thin, but whatever). Certainly, professional courtesy would dictate that at the very least she would apologize to them after the fact. She did neither, even now. While she purports to pride herself on her intelligence and professionalism, her conduct demonstrates neither.
The larger point (given that she is retiring anyway) is that there is no effective means for addressing this problem. This post on the Philly board will disappear soon as it flips to page two. Meanwhile, Macy has scheduled a trip to DC, where the hobbyists will have no clue this has transpired. Obviously, TER needs an effective means to address nc/ns beyond the local boards. If DC hobbyists are stood up for the same kind of reasons the gentlemen in Princeton were stood up, they will wonder why no one warned them of this problem.
FYI: (And thanks for the post) I (If u care, I started the BGFE thread, I'm clave665) was NCNS'd TWICE - and any correspondence w/Macy was professional and respectful. In both NCNS's my 'final' emails were a little 'stronger', I'll admit that - but NOT obnoxious. I expressed disappointment over what I'd considered unprofessional behavior, that I hoped all was well, and to please at least give me the courtesy of a final reply. Nope.
No, the bottom line is that this discussion has been dragged out for way too long at this point. It's been acknowledged that, for whatever reasons she may have had, didn't see two people in one day. The two individuals that reported what happened have their side of the story as Macy has her own. Somewhere in the middle there was a communication breakdown and the happening, happened. Her not being apologetic and sympathetic to their "needs and wants" is irrelevant now. It's not a Home Health Hospice service. Move on. She has no obligation to appear to this apparent courtroom of clients and defend herself in any manner. She's obviously taken time to come and attempt to explain what happened that day as well as fend off some of the attacks. So just get off of her back about the whole thing and move on with your lives.
Why even attempt to police a situation that obviously needs no further investigation? Does anyone at your job bring up the fact that you may or may not have cheated on a test in college? While it may present an opportunity for one to question your character for doing so, it's really none of their concern. Just as this matter really isn't anyone's concern, (other than the people effected by the event), at this point. I could see your point if this was a common occurance when scheduling with Macy, but it's not. So why is she being persecuted for maybe having something personal come up one day. Anyone who's ever lived life knows that things happen. This happened, it's over. I'm sure it will be addressed and this event will be brought up IF it happens again. There's really nothing else to say about the matter.
Don't think for a second that they are not aware of this thread, they certainly are.
I just don't feel the need to bring it up on the board there but I've talked to some of my friends there about it already. Of course they know!
