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posted 21 years ago

I have always obliged when a gent has asked to use me as a reference. Whether another gal takes me as "legit" (are u serious?) that's not my problem. Because someone is low volume and doesn't "tour" or whatever their criteria is, I personally don't have an issue with it.

Is it Monday yet? LOL!

BJ

mie1321 years ago9295 reads

References I need References

Wondering if anyone else is having this trouble?
Have been hobbying for 9 years. Use to go to Fairytales, Morgans Mansion and Philly Mansion. I have been seeing a UTR provider for about 5 years. I also see another provider that use to work at the Mansion.
Obviously I can not ask anybody at the Philly or Morgan mansion for a reference. The UTR provider does not even know about EROS or TER, she is no help (plus I would feel bad asking her). The other provider does not want to get involved with other providers. I have aske Betty of SNJ but I only have seen her twice.
Everyonce in a while I would like to see a different provider but most are now asking for references (and from someone they know). If you had the same problem and have found a way around it please let me know.

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betty_snj21 years ago6435 reads

you can always use my name as reference

most providers will accept me because I'm legit ~~~~ please make sure you contact me before using me as reference so I know who you are and if is ok to vouch for you.

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LadyBJ21 years ago7325 reads

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mie1321 years ago6272 reads

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So basically I have to see other providers who are well known and say that I need them for a reference?

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betty_snj21 years ago5749 reads

not necessarily....but

it helps if the provider you saw has a good reputation and is well known on the boards, with reliable reviews and a working website.
I know is fun to see UTR girls, but when a visiting or new girl is in town, the UTR name would not help you much. But, if you mention the name of a girl that has been around for a while it will be accepted in a quicker way.
I think asking for 2 references is too much...one reference from a reputable girl should be enough to vouch for a client.

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Candace Of ATL21 years ago5737 reads

I screen and also accept References...

Neither one holds more weight than the other for me. ~I also offer reference verification for my established clients, Nation wide~ I will guarantee a provider her published rate if the client is a regular of mine.

I got burnt year before last taking a "reputable providers" word as a reference so now I combine both and only see those that make me feel comfortable.(* A luxury I know I am fortunate to have but also realize I have well earned it) If a gentleman can provide me with what I ask for then I do not necessarily need another providers reference. But on the same line, a providers reference would never be the only thing I would accept to see someone..... kisses Candace