its really funny that you have guys on here whining about:price,attitude,service and looks.
maybe if you took a little time and remember what you were told growing up.  treat others how you would like to be treated.  Let us be realistic, too many guys forget that a couple bucks should not cloud the girls senses.  You read reviews like: heavier than expected, diddnt want to kiss, no finger, cbj only. Here is an idea shrink the amount of different girls you see, find one or a couple that you like and pamper them. There is a chance that just maybe if you are a lil more generous and show a little loyalty the girl might feel a little more comfortable which should lead to a more enjoyable time.   I am an independent contractor and absolutely refuse to be haggled, I believe for the work i do i deserve what i ask for and would not do the job for less.  like my field there are plenty of providers who are or are not able to meet and or exceed expectations.  Here is a couple simple suggestions before you go to meet up: shower, trim nails, shave, brush teeth, clean clothes, show up on time, offer to stop at store.  one last thing, you have guys looking for gfe  if you ever really had a girlfriend you would remember the better you treated her  increased the chances of getting an enjoyable gfe

You to give some acceptable performance. So the guy who is one and done in seeing providers is just SOL,  is that it?  We have to make you "comfortable" beyond the safety issues and repeat with you to finally get what we're looking for.

Who are the customers here. If you see a lot of criticism, maybe you should change your practices instead of trying to change your customers.

In a way, I see where you're coming from.. and some of the things that you mentioned I actually do. Mainly shower, and dress presentable.. and smell good Lol.. You'd think those things were no brainers.. But I've heard of chicks dealing with funky ass men and they'd be thinking.. Ohh hell no. Lol In terms of sliming the amount of women I see down... Umm.. Nahh.. I mean it sounds good.. But C'mon.. I'm a guy.. and like most guys.. We want to fuck every fine piece of ass.. My sexual philosophy is this.. The FIRST time you touch some pussy.. You tear that ass up.. and I think some providers should have that same mentality. Go in saying.. I'm fucking the shit outta this guy.. and I'm gonna make him want to come back for more. It's really simple.. Smile, make us feel welcome, and comfortable.. I've seen a few girls who just had that "go with the flow" attitude.. In turn it made me feel completely awkward and ready to leave soon as I walked into the room. Some cases I did. I was with one, who was just really cool, her personality was sexy.. Ended up seeing her on a personal level. (I miss her actually) LoL

im not a provider moron, and if you were not so close minded and shallow you would realize a little sometimes goes a long way.  It is guys like you that make some of these girls bitter.  In your fantasy world a couple bucks entitles you a mind blowing experience.  You should take super glue and 20 dollar bills and cover any part of your body that one might find unattractive and in your case make sure to cut little holes in the bills you put over your mouth.  It takes time to understand each other and maybe you cant afford the investment it might take.  Does it seem fair that a guy can write a review that the girl is fatter than expected or has saggy boobs  but just because of a couple bucks the girl must totally disregard size,race,cleanliness,attitude and perform.

I totally agree!
This is my mind set for every appt .. hence why i have regulars!
"Go in saying.. I'm fucking the shit outta this guy.. and I'm gonna make him want to come back for more"
Then I add .. "And we're gonna have a blast too!"

Just my 2 cents ...
Addy

I am already on the record as for treating a provider the proper way. I have posted on numerous times the proper etiquette as regards to cleanliness and hygiene.http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=28&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=balls&SearchType=1&Author=christophtrac&DayFrom=3000&DayTo=0&MessageID=31433&frmSearch=1#31433 However this attitude that you must see a provider multiple times before she brings her "A" game is just not  going to happen.

The guys including myself are willing to pay premium money for a GFE type session.  Just like any business you only have 1 chance to make that good(fuck that...GREAT) first impression.  If the services or appearance are not to our liking there will be no repeat.


If I go to a new restaurant and spend $200+ on dinner and I don’t get the quality food or service that I desire do you actually expect me to come back a couple more times hoping that it gets better?    of course not.....

Women .....If you go to a new hairdresser and they do a lousy job on your hair....do you go back?



YOU have one chance to impress. If I walk out and my head spinning and I feel like the lady just literally "fucked the taste out of my mouth"
you can bet that there is a good chance I will see her again.


If her services were lackluster and rather pedestrian.....Odds are there will not be another session...