I booked an appointment with Miss Chloe Daniels for 11:AM this morning in King of Prussia. Upon arriving at her room I was informed " I don`t date black men. I was once hurt by a black man." Today I was hurt by a white provider. It`s hard for me to beleive This kind of racism still exists in 2009. Providers should post the fact they will not see certain ethnic groups and perhaps they should not be allowed to advertise on this site.
I appreciate what your saying.. The provider should have been upfront with you and your time is valuable. She was WRONG for not being upfront with you and asking you what your race was on the phone prior to the appointment.
However they have the right to see whoever they want.. for whatever reason they want.
I wouldn't necessary call it racism ( although it meets Webster's definition) and I certainly wouldn't think that they should be prohibited from posting an ad somewhere....
I know of providers who won't see fat, old, smelly, asian, indian_________ (fill in the blank) guys.. its just their choice. There are plently of providers that would love to see you walk thru their door.
It's racist because she is excluding him based on his race. Pretty damned simple.
Fucking inconsiderate too if you ask me. She doesn't tell him until he shows up at the door? Does she just take the chance every time that the dude ain't black.
Does she have a right too? Yeah. She has a right to fuck or not fuck anyone she wants for whatever reason she wants. It's still racist.
Does it make her a bad provider? No, not telling him until he knocks on the door does.
that I do ask for height, weight, race, thenicity, etc on my site just because if there is a medical/weight issue I like to know, I also like to do as much reserach on the "clients" background so I know how to better "please" him..... ALL that being said MORE than HALF of the time, my Contact Form comes back EMPTY and in some cases the person is of mixed ethinicity and in some cases has an extraordinary wight condition AND in some cases EVEN an absolutelly mentionable condition! I've never turned anyone away because of anythign like that, but sometimes it BETTER serves everyone to know ahead of time =)
I agree with R2T: providers can see or not see whoever they want for whatever reason or no reason at all. I also think that if a provider has an ethnic group exclusion it should be made clear somewhere in her FAQ's etc. However, if a provider chooses not to see you because you are black or other... there are plenty of us who would welcome you with open arms and mouths! Don't sweat it -
I agree with Julesgottrogs. Don't sweat it. If a provider has an ethnic issue it should be stated on their web site or on the phone. To many other options out their. Now I will admit I take it personally when a black provider state's she will not see black men.......but thats a whole different conversation
And her reason was that she felt that the black men she had seen did not treat her with as much respect as the white men.. Now I am sure that there is an equal number of disrespecting white and black gentleman but I just thought it interesting. my background... i am a mutt, white , black with jewish and catholic mixed in..
It is her body and it is her right to turn away whom she choses.
I have been turned away before for not being "ASIAN" enough, if that makes any sense.
I am Filipino, Chinese, Spaniard, and Native American if that makes any sense lol. Some guys just prefer white girls and some aren't so picky with race, as long as they gorgeous and provide a great service.
When I was with the agency, I once had an outcall with an indian guy who (for whatever reason) thought I was white. After a 45 minute drive and $25 for parking at his hotel, he opens the door and literally has a huge tantrum and declares he does not see black women. As if that wasn't insulting enough, he then told me how beautiful I was "for a black girl" and offered to "accept my services" at a discounted price "due to MY circumstances". Race is not circumstantial and he was doing me no favor by accepting my services! I don't think I've ever been so livid. People have the right to preferences but need to be mindful about how/when they express them. Which is the real issue in both of these situations. So, RT2 I feel your frustration. Had I been a different woman he could have found himself in a world of trouble for that kind of behavior. Maybe this young lady should keep the same thing in mind.
discrimination comes in many many shapes forms and colors... from the "complexion" of a swim club... to bigoted belief that "polocks" are dumber than, well, dumb....
and believe it or not, I've seen racist behavior of blacks - AGAINST - of all folk, blacks!
man - believe it or not, I am sorry for that hurt.
Sorry to hear this happened to you. She should state on her ad/website of her preferences of whom visits her.
Sometimes we as providers can't tell over the phone or email as to what ethnic background they are. I often have black (or asian,indian white, etc) men let me know they are black(or asian,indian white, etc)...though it makes no difference to me as I see all, as long as they are a respectful gentlemen.
Unfortunately, it matters to some who they see, hopefully someday this will change.
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