Ok, so when a provider contacts another provider for a reference what do you think they discuss?  Whether the guy is legit and that's the extent of it or do you think there is any back and forth about the the guy's personality, abilities, appearance, etc?  

We ask when was the last time we saw you, whether we would see you again and if you are safe...we don't really discuss a lot (it would be great though)... And it would be great to have a TER where we can discuss reviewers... Trust me... The dynamics would be a lot different if we were able to reply to reviews... Bottom line..  Always be a gentleman towards a lady...!!

Thanks for the insight.  Kinda what I figured.

What she said and..

Sometimes maybe a bit more insight. Like "he is awesome at oral, have fun!" Or he really knows how to please.. Or he is really into kissing, cuddling or reading and acting out Archie Bunker. 1st Volume of course. For the most part it's seen him, yes he is safe and would see again. If I can I will try to tell the lady maybe what the client likes so to insure a great experience for both. If the provider is hot I might ask if I can join.