Hey there, I've lurked this board long enough and I'm looking to set up my first date, is there (or can anyone recommend) someone who could meet up with me in the KoP area? Not looking to rush into this, but its about time I commit. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!

Dear FOODz753:
Are you going to be comfortable relinquishing your information with regards to your employment and other non-traditional information in order to obtain an encounter? That is the underlying question since your in the seminal stages of the hobby.

Well, I don't think anyone necessarily WANTS to relinquish such information, but most things we must do are typically things we don't want to do. More to the question, yes, I am willing to give that information. I understand that people want to be safe, and I have no problem with that, so I am more than compliant with such expectations. I'm still very unfamiliar with the process though, and any advice that you may have would be greatly appreciated.

P411

Try to be fairly open and give them every opportunity to ask questions so you can furnish them with enough information so that they will feel comfortable taking a chance with you. Also construct the letter formally and continue to ask them questions that would be relevant to the process.

I'm new to this as well, also in the KoP area, and was a VIP member here but not on 411. It's hard to find a provider without any references or a membership to a site like 411 or date check. After about 6 months I've only seen one provider 2 times and been blown off a couple of times. There has been 2 other providers that I did get verification for as well, but my ridiculous schedule would not allow for us to meet up.

Good luck man, I must admit the one provider I did see had very good reviews here and she lived up to them including appearance and performance as well. Based on what your saying you are doing the same thing I did by taking your time to choose the right provider, which this site is good for. Let me know about 411 if you sign up, I was a little hesitant joining because I didn't want them to have my work number. As far as recommending a provider I recommend Connie in Phila she's kind, pretty and treats her customer right!

Good luck!!!!

there are many ladies that will see newbies. You might have to give out some more information then you normally would, or maybe it takes a phone conversation or two for her to be comfortable. It will happen and you will have a blast!

 Also don't narrow your search to just KOP. You are close enough to The city of Philadelphia or the Philly/airport area. Search around, take your time and take the plunge my good man.

 Happy Holidays!