You know, it is sad when someone reputable misses an appointment and the client decides to not even find out what happened before they go post crazy.

I received a very mean email from him a few hours after the missed appointment not even asking what happened.

He emailed me the night before asking if I would be available at noon.  I said yes and please give me a call in the morning to confirm, which I always do to prevent misunderstandings or missed appointments on either end.  If for some reason I do not answer, please don't drive to my incall location and get angry with me because you did so.

Those who have met me know that I really love what I do and would never stand anyone up intentionally.  I've been on the net for 3+ years and posts like this are few and far between......this is because I am one of the few that appreciate clients and really do care about their time.  Yes, I am not perfect and I do miss appointments for various reasons from time to time.  I don't take this lightly and always offer a discount to make it up to someone when I do something wrong. I wouldn't offer this person a discount, actually I am glad I will never see him and very glad we never got a chance to meet.  A mean email like that without even listening to my side shows me that he isn't the kind of person I would like to meet.  I enjoy close intimate times, and I don't care to be intimate with a jerk.

I'm glad you warned everyone, beware of me.  Give me a break.  Don't get me wrong, if I actually waste someones time I do not take it lightly......but after the rude email etc I'm glad our paths will never cross.  I won't go into detail because that is something that should be done backchannel, but I never blew this guy off intentionally.  I do care about my reputation, that is why I have such a good one.

Take care, maybe get some Xanax or some compassion for the girls who don't stand people up just for kicks.

Kisses
Morgan

The jokes in the email would have been funny if it were not accompanied by wishing I had a terrible trip, etc.  As far as an explanation, I don't wish to post my personal life all over the boards or share it with someone who wouldn't care either way.

A tentative date for noon was set, with a request to call in the morning to confirm the appointment.  Regardless of my side of the story, I am sorry you have ill feelings toward me.  I am really not a bitch.....I have a very postive attitude and I normally do not let anything get under my skin.  You should see the amount of no-shows and cancellations one may get on a trip.  That is why I do the confirmation call, so if someone doesn't confirm I can fill the slot without any problems.  The same is true on the other end, if something happens and I can't answer to confirm they are free to make an appointment with someone else and not drive to a location and wait when I don't answer.  Things happen in life and that is why I am so understanding when someone needs to cancel or maybe not even call, and usually I am paid the same respect.  

I can say in general Philly clients are great and I always look forward to visting Philly.  I'm sorry if all of this gives you a bad opinion of me.  I work hard to make sure that if you do visit me there is a good time had by all.  I do not take your decision to see me lightly and I really appreciate the clients that I have.  I must be doing something right, since when I visit Philly around 75% of my business is repeat...sometimes all are repeats and I don't have time to see anyone new depending on the length of my trip.

Once again I am sorry.  It certainly wasn't your fault, and even though it was out of my control it is still my fault.  If there is anything I can do to change your opinion of me or make you feel better in any way please let me know.

Kisses
Morgan

In reading both sides, let's chalk this up to sh** happens. Neither of you appear to be an idiot. I had a real date set up a few weeks ago. We had trouble getting a hold of each other...I waited two hours etc...no show.

When I got to the bootom of it (after cooling down for a day and givng the benfit of the doubt), I realized it was siutational..not the person's character).

We went out the next week and had a great time.

Again, Sh** happens. It's not liek you flew across the USA.