The idea of offering seconds in a 1 hr date is not as uncomplicated as many hobbyist tend to think.  Because we are paying customers we tend to think it should be a given that the girl is going to try to make us cum as many times as she can in the hour. One very important factor that many men forget is that many men are not capable of reloading and performing twice in an hour. A provider that is a true GFE is aware of this fact. BE HONEST.... How good would your session be if the girl is begging you for more and  you are not able to get it up. She is there stroking your now limp penis and you are praying for it to come back to life.  That kind of psychological pressure for a lot of guys is a huge turn off. Shit !! Getting performance anxiety from not being able to satisfy your wife is bad enough. Feeling guilty for not making a PAID provider cum or feel satisfied has got to be the worst.  

   This is the dilemma that many good providers  have to deal with. They have to in less than an hour assess your capability and true desire(which if you ask me is nothing short of being a psychic)Do you even want to try again for a second cup . I understand  the guy that cums prematurely in the first 10-15 minutes of the session  perhaps during the BJ and feels cheated. I don't understand those that spend more than  40 minutes in the actual sexual act and are upset that they were not offered seconds. MOST (not all) but most men need at least 10-15 minutes recovery time (Remember the average hobbyist is 40-60 we are not 19).

     I recently saw a very good well reviewed  provider that  at the beginning of her session laid out the ground rules of her session. One of her rules is that she wanted the guy to cum at least twice. This for many men sounds like a wonderful thing, however for many others it may be the beginning of a 1 hr  performance anxiety attack. That may be a lot of pressure for a guy that knows he is only good for one pop.


Remember that the reviews are written from the mans perspective. I have read thousands of reviews and rarely do we hear a guy boasting about how he came in the first 5 minutes of the session and was not able to get it back up.


Just something to chew on......I  don't claim to have all the answers.

Just my .10   (inflation)

This way I know I'm good for the second pop.  I think that's the norm.

but she was up to the task of coaxing it out of me!  Honestly, it does depend on the chemistry - and you know me.... you know I am not young... hittin that upper limit on your hobbiest age!  but as I say, the chemistry has to be right... and on the gal with the 3 cups... had I not had an early AM meeting... We would have gone for it...


But - this was not in an hour session!  Although we had two cups without a break!  yea! me too, I was impressed....  I have "special" ladies that I will schedule an extended appointment with... why? because I really enjoy their company, and I also find that makes the sex a whole lot better.  

If I see a gal who I am doubtful that I will click with, I schedule an hour... well I did that recently, and guess what, as she said... "wow!  this hour went too quickly, and I regret that I cannot offer to extend as I have someone coming..."  This was truly heartfelt.  and I did appreciate it....

Alas, while this hobby offers me many things, it also has its own complications... so in general I try to pace myself in a session, knowing my own physiology, sometimes something of the lady, and a general rule of thumb... which says, that IF I cum in the first few minutes of the session, then I am gonna be sittin there a while before we have a second liftoff!  and that probably won't allow for seconds in only an hour.....  (It is possible, but not probable)....

I wish I had your problems..eom

As I posted in a recent review, I can't ever recall popping twice in one session, whether it be just an hour or 2+ hours.  I know this about myself, that I'm good for 1 pop, which doesn't mean I can't perform after that pop.  I have popped and then after some rest was able to go ahead with a second round, but I know that there's no chance of me firing off volley #2.  But for me, that's not the reason for spending time with a girl-not always.
It depends on the provider.  If she's more PSE, than let's get down to business, BJ right to the main act.  Now, I can last a while the majority of the time before finally erupting.  So, like BSD stated in his reply, that would make for an hour session.  If she's more GFE, 90 mins to 2 hours are required and I like to take my time.  Kissing and touching, taking care of her first then letting her take care of me, then on to the main sex act.  Should I happen to pop before the session's up and there's still enough time for more playing, yeah-a good 10-15 minutes recoup time is needed.  That time is usually filled with conversation or I'll take care of her again.  But usually, I'll try to pace myself and time it out that I'll get off close to the end of the session.
You do have to know yourself, your body and it's capabilities, and apply that to her rules and the chemistry between you.  I think it's true that a good experienced provider will work with you, at your pace, and either help to slow things down or speed them up for the desired result.  

there have been times when there were 0 pops... for whatever reason for me, but that did not mean that I did not have a good or even great time.  Lovely ladies - who are interesting and fun.... cannot get much better than that!

This is why you cannot overstate the value of actually spending a few minutes TALKING to a provider before things get rolling. I'm sure this is by no means a new idea but how can we expect these ladies to be psychics. Tell them what you want what you like...and for petes sake ask them what they like/don't like!!! (ain't it like 1000 times better when you please them, i find the reciprocation  to be more than worth any effort) It is SOOO much better when all involved are clear so no time/stress need be wasted worrying about whos gonna do what to whom and how many times.