Because I want it to be as hush-hush as possible.  Please to the invitees, do not mention the date or the location in any way.  I had to deal with some hate mail, I don't need that right now.  AS for the gentlemen who expressed interest and never sent an RSVP, this is your last call!!!  If I don't receive one today, SORRY!

I appreciate the interest in many who want to attend, and I apologize if there isn't much room for the gentlemen, I would like to keep it to a minimum, and also there will be another party so, you will get a chance.  Again please no hard feelings and I look forward to being your hostess for that evening!

Solana