Philadelphia
Lol (eom).
One provider contacts reviewers of other same area provider to let them know she is also available.
What do you call that??/
I have been getting the email notices that I have TER emails but my account does not give me access to open TER emails.
You can TER messenger me OR email me [email protected].
Well I can't seem to e-mail you from my yahoo so you try me lol [email protected]
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I knew this would not sit well with the ladies... But I did want to know how the men thought of it . What gets me about the reaction from some not on this board is that they seem to think that because a guy writes you a review that some how makes him indented to you until you say otherwise. That was one issue. Also This is some thing I have done openly never once making it secret from providers or the clients I contacted.. So how it could be looked at as back biting or stabbing is really beyond me. I was asked a direct question (bit hostile) on it and I gave an immediate honest answer . I saw nothing wrong with my actions.
FOR THE RECORD(CAPS USED FOR EMPHASIS NOT MALICE) I DID NOT AT ANY TIME CONTACT ANY CLIENT BY PHONE I COULDN’T T AND WOULDN’T I DID NOT AT ANY TIME OR POINT OF CONTACT OFFER ANY THING IN MEANS OF DISCOUNT OR ADDED OR FORBIDDEN SERVICE FOR SEE-ING ME. I DID NOT AT ANY TIME OR POINT DISCOUNT (SLAM) THE ORIGINAL PROVIDER FROM WITCH I GAINED ACCESS TO ANY CLIENT.
I’ve been tabbed, double-spaced, italicized, even boldfaced at times, but never indented. It has to be painful.
See you can always find the bright side. I’m not going to explain it if you get then there is no need for me to sweat it. lol
When Livie and I were speaking via phone she mentioned to me that she has contacted Gents from my reviews. I stated I wasn't overly pleased with this type of action but she calls it marketing. Why am I unpleased...I have spent my time Screening those who have reviewed me, I have spent time connecting with them via phone and email before meeting when they desired so, I shared time with them earning that review.
I really don't know what was stated when she contacted them and don't want Gents to think I suggested she contact them. If they are interested in someone else, they know how to find her. Three are some sites I pay for and don't care for someone working off what I pay for.
Why it doesn't bother me, I do not own any Gent. They will see whomever them desire. If they desire to see me again they know how to reach me. I have never gotten a bad review (knock on wood)so I believe my reviews will show who and what I am all about which will bring new Gents.
Marketing, if you feel times are slow there are plenty of Classy ways to market yourself. Search for new places to post an Ad. Try paying for your Ad to be highlighted, moved higher, whatever the case may be. Offer a Special, which I did notice you are doing. Update your photos again. Add yourself into the search engines. Build a Fan Club where Screened gents can get to know you.
Advice, not all reviews out there are real. From what I understood speaking with you lastnight you are contacting these Gents off the E site. I have had the site remove reviews of Gents I never saw. Now, how do you know the Gent actually saw the Lady ? Maybe he was after a month of free VIP, Maybe the reviewer drives a cute lil car that is supplied to him with pretty lights and is allowed to carry a pistol (and not the kind we like.)
Like I told you, do what you feel you are comfortable with. Some of us may not agree but some may. You are the one who has to live with your actions every night when you go to bed.
I will give you credit for at least telling me you used my reviews. I am flatter that all my effort building a good rep is paying off to the point you would use mine.
No disrespect intended in this post, just my point blank thoughts. You know me well enough to know I am a straight shooter who has no problem speaking her thoughts.
Any issues with my thoughts feel free to give me a call.
I do honestly wish you the best,
Tori
Tori This is important to me ..................
I’m glad you have changed your thoughts of this since last year your points are many and valid, thank you for the suggestions, I don’t want to keep going into it too much at this point bc we all do have different views on it clients and providers.
Again this is why I posted it I was not being sneaky you know me well enough to know I don’t do that behind your back ,alias hide N- seek crap so why not tell you and the you know who?
Also I would like to make clear that although I have used this method of marketing and it dose has it’s cons as well as pros
don’t for get or mistake using this method of advertising like others in no way forgoes the screening prcess.
No one I mean no one sees me with out iT Ask around Gentlemen read my post you'll see it's true.
How many times have I called you to verify a gent who as reviewed you ?
And vies versa.. I choose this method Because I would rather this then drastically reducing my rate.
I view that as this…….. Why have to thro 3 stones to kill one bird when I can use one stone to kill 2.
In my view it is that simple. It has absolutely nothing to do with client steeling being tacky Or not screening witch some want to really make issue….
. Any way that really is the point of it so for any of you ladies that have been offend by this I’m truly sorry I don’t want to offend any one …….
But here it is I’m not going to Lower my rates (except specials seasons ) or kill my self when the market is there if you work it
. Bottom line as all of you ladies have stated this vehemently time and again
. This is a business ,This is a business This is a business
Nothing more nothing less and I will continue to run it as such.......Peace seriously Livie.
Ps to any one who wants to turn this into a bitch fight don't even go there, we are intelligent women having a discussion witch includes disagreeing views. Nothing more.
-- Modified on 12/8/2008 10:15:12 AM
Industrial Espionage. Better be careful.
well then may be they should buy a degree in sale ,marketing ,and basics in business. Because it's not Espionage. I am just an ordinary woman in an ordinary world trying to make my way just like the rest of them and you for that fact. lol so lets lightin up just a bit.
It was intended to "lighten up just a bit".
Yes I have one too..
I'm glad all I ever want to do is have fun. O and thank you.
-- Modified on 12/8/2008 10:24:00 AM
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