hello folks, long time reader, first time poster. Tonight I've been to my first provider. It was not exactly what I was expecting thou:
no f/s due to bad time of the month, french was average because provider had some issues which impaired her breathing, and she was in bit of a foul mood because she had an abusive client earlier in the day, she explained and tried her best not to show it, but I could still feel it.
So the performance was less than good but the effort was a 10.
I want to write a review and be honest about it but it would seem unfair to her due to the circumstances of the day.
Any suggestions?

I have always been hesitant to write a bad review unless there was something really terrible or something that was clearly a permanent problem that would ruin the experience for anyone.  I always felt that everyone is allowed to have a bad day and also that the chemistry might just have been bad (I think I am charming, but people don't always agree)and I don't want to ruin someone's career.  I am always honest when I write, but hesitant as I said.  I am conflicted about this as you are, but there it is.

Hi there sweety. I think your post was really sweet. I think that her visiting you during that time of the month was irresponsible. I know sometimes it sneaks up and that's just unavoidable but she could have let you know and offered a reduced rate at the very least or gave you the option to reschedule to fully meet your expectations. I also understand that one bad client can affect a lady for not just a day but sometimes days or weeks. It can be very hurtful and stressful. Thankfully this has rarely happened to me but your concern sounded so genuine and I applaud you for that. My advice would be to contact her privately and express your concern for her bad day and say you wish you could have met under better circumstances and written a great review but didn't feel the situation was indicative of what other reviews had made you expect. She might even offer you a discount off another session. Now, I have no idea who it was so this is just an objective opinion but I'd say hold off on a review for now and see what she says. If her response is to blow you off and take offense when she knows she didn't give you what you deserved then I would go ahead and write the review and be honest but very tactful. When you try to see other providers there is a good chance they will read your other reviews and you don't want to sound like a jerk, ya know? lol unless you are then we providers want the truth! j/k Hope that helps...

You made a date with  my wife ???!

Damn, that is one lousy way to start this hobby!!! That would turn some guys Gay for crying out loud! Don't tell me she was fat too?  lol  

My advice is to get TER VIP (if you don't have it), search reviews rigorously based on your personal criteria, and get a VERY well reviewed gal with many scores of 9/9 or better. Nothing is fool proof, but you won't have a situation like you just described.

The advice they used to give cowboys was "If you fall off your (bloody) horse (whores), get back up and ride again"!        

Good luck, and PM me if you need  further advice.
Fuzzy




-- Modified on 11/3/2008 7:07:22 AM

Seems a shame to write a bad review when you explain away all the badness. OTOH, maybe this is her strategy. Call her again, have a discussion, if you agree to another date then the onus will be on her to earn a great review!

No matter what, write a review. Let your fellow hobbyists know about what is going on. I always write a review. Also, if the monthly visitor was in town, then why was she offering sessions?

Write a review.

i mean seriously are you kidding me

As Macy (a provider) said above, it was very irresponsible for her to visit him during "that time of the month". A responsible provider would have called ahead to either cancel or reschedule for the following week. I mean, we are talking about a guy who (from what I can tell) was promised FS but then denied. This is worth reporting. I hope that for his sake he was offered some sort of compensation in the way of another session at a discounted rate. Honestly, I wouldn't pay full price for FS and only receive BJ. That borders on dishonest. Definitely bad business.

Of course, Ribguards, you might consider sorting things out with her and getting s'more clarification or even another session before you write the review.

But after all is said and done, write a review.