I have used this agency in the past and the agency has always been very courteous and professional. This kind of behavior is definitely not the norm .
I posted the post just to make sure my head was on straight and I was not trippin. In my heart I think they were just having a bad night and unfortunately it carried over into my session. I E-mailed the agency in the morning and told them how unhappy I was with the way things were handled and they responded back quickly with an apology. I believe their apology was sincere and I accept it. Everyone deserves a second chance. Just as it is not policy to put a provider on blast for missing an appointment. I don't play baseball....2 strikes and your out with me. Everyone gets one strike. we are all human.
Christoph
A question for the board.
I want some feedback from the board on what I call a strange situation..
A while back I had called an agency for an outcall session. Soon after a young lady called me to let me know she was going to be a little late.....(an hour late) but that was all good. To give you the readers digest version .....we had a great session. an easy 8 in performance by TER standards. The whole session lasted maybe 50 minutes. The young lady gets up excuses herself to the bathroom freshens up and requests another glass of wine. I get the glass of wine and have her donation including a tip waiting for her on the coffee table when she comes out of the bathroom. She sits down and leisurely sips her wine and we start talking. She and I are fully dressed and it is obvious to me that the session is over. She picks up her donation and thanks me for the tip. We get to talking and before you know it we have been talking over 30 minutes. Her phone rings and her agency is giving her shit about how long she has been there.
Now this is where things get weird. The agency tells her to ask me if I was paying for a 2 hr session...I laugh and ask "your kidding right"? Oh...by the way its almost 12:00 midnight. I could see that the provider was disturbed by the agency questions and she did the right thing and told the agency that they would talk about it later. 40 minutes later the agency calls me asking me why I kept her for almost 2 hrs. Actually had the nerve to remind me how "you know you are paying for their time". I tried not to get pissed but the fact that they were calling me about what I thought was bullshit at almost 1 am was kinda disturbing. My take on the situation was I paid her at the end of the session ,she choose to stay and chat. I am gentleman.... even though I was satisfied and kinda tired I wasn't going to kick her out.
I told the agency owner they were trippin. Is there a chance that I was out of line on this one? The whole situation seemed like something out of the Bizzaro World.
I welcome your feedback........
Chris
Sounds like Bullshit...at the very least it is unprofessional of this agency to do so.
Outcall is tricky sometimes, I guess...with incall I guess it's less likely to run into an "overtime" situation. LOL
I wonder if in this case they took you to be a newbie & thought they'd get a couple of extra bucks from you?
I would probably post a review & note the goings-on, Chris...I'd like to see the provider receive the good review you say she deserves and the Agency...well maybe they could've handled it in a better way?
That would piss me off big time. Private message me the agency so I avoid. That is purely a stupid move on their part. You paid and she was dresses. Business is over at that point. She decided to exchange in conversation, thats service after the sale.
You are in the right. It was the providers choice to stay. PS Glad u r back
for some of these ladies they are separated for the most part from "normal" society if they are contract gals for an agency and do this more than full time. For the agency to bust your balls is uncalled for. Sounds like a less than reputable agency.
It should have gone like this, agency calls at the end of the hour to ask if all is well, gal says "yes - we are finished" send the car in 20 min as I am "freshening up"! End of story.
And yea, we ALL know that we are paying for their time... But if they choose to give some time in the bargain, well?
I will be honest, recently I was with one GREAT lady, and we had a GREAT time... unfortunately I have to get up the next day and go to work, so I am usually the one who cuts the time short! Sad BUT TRUE! As I would be the one who would love to extend...
Dude, that was a high complement to you! The agency should have been more understanding.
was way out of line... I wonder what the provider told them after she left you??
Don't you think you should let us all know what agency this was? or is that a no no!!
yeah spill the beans Chris. I mean what is TER gonna do, ban you lol BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
With an Indy, she may have spent the night off the clock with zero repurcussions. With an agency, you get what you got.
over the agency BS.... besides they take too much from the gal...
I have used this agency in the past and the agency has always been very courteous and professional. This kind of behavior is definitely not the norm .
I posted the post just to make sure my head was on straight and I was not trippin. In my heart I think they were just having a bad night and unfortunately it carried over into my session. I E-mailed the agency in the morning and told them how unhappy I was with the way things were handled and they responded back quickly with an apology. I believe their apology was sincere and I accept it. Everyone deserves a second chance. Just as it is not policy to put a provider on blast for missing an appointment. I don't play baseball....2 strikes and your out with me. Everyone gets one strike. we are all human.
Christoph
Once an agency had scheduled me with a really wonderful PS. She failed to show... the agency on their own, offered to compensate me for my time by giving an extended visit with any provider that they offered.... I took them up on it... and was rewarded with a great session with the PS who previously was a NS. sometimes agencies are ok, but sometimes... and more often than not, they are what they are...
My belief... yea, let them have more swings at bat than one!....
Well, first I think the provider should have run interference for you and told the agency it wasn't your fault she was there past time. Perhaps she did (the "we'll talk about it later" comment to the agency) but that didn't defuse it sufficiently and the agency decided to see how far they would get with you anyway. I know that you and she know that the session ended and she chose to stay and chat but the guy at the other end (the agency) doesn't know that so concluded you kept her.
Having said that, the provider may have been reluctant to be too much of a proponent for you beyond that comment because she has responsiblity to watch her time too and then the agency would have taken it out of her pocket - thus yet another reason for the agency to see how far they could get with you, since they may not have known it wasn't completely your fault.
In either event, you turn out to be the bad guy.
In one sense, however, I think clients also need to realize when time is up and it's time for the provider to go (or vice versa in the case of incall) rather than putting all the onus on the provider, although I can certainly see, and have experienced, going beyond time for that same reason - you just get to talking. Not necessarily "kick her out" but gently say it's time because you don't want to get phone calls from the agency, lol. By the same token if your explanation and the provider's explanation were one and the same, then the agency should have just let it go with the classic "hope it doesn't happen again."
Bottom line is I think there is equal culpability - the provider for not noticing the time, you for not noticing the time, both of you for the potential ramifications, and the agency for not accepting the explanation and considering it a lesson learned, particularly at that time of the night.
This get a bit tricky, but here's why I take your side (mostly): I suppose it's pretty much an unsaid rule, but the provider's the one who at least drops the hint "Well it was nice seeing you", "I have to get ready now", whatever. I've gone maybe 15 over - there was no 'next' appt and nothing was said. This is added to by the fact that you both were dressed and the envelope taken.
I do, as a courtesy, though, ask 'Do you know what time it is?' if the session really starts to go O/T. The few times that has happened always got a "oh I know" answer. But, those were Indys....
But to get back, I feel it's the provider's initiative to express any issues over time.
First she should have called the agency when she got dressed. Second if the agency gave you shit I wouldn't use them again and let us know who they are and we can avoid them too. You are too good of a customer. Also, yes you did represent yourself as a gentleman and I'm sure the provider knows that. She did right by telling them she would talk about it later and it sounds like she will be in a bit of trouble with the agency--which is unfortunate.
You did nothing wrong at all.
We should be told about the agency. Really unprofessional.
The provider didn't seem to worry about the time, so the agency shouldn't. I'm sure if if was a big deal for her, she would of left on time. Nice to know that she is not a clock watcher.
I agree that you did nothing wrong and the agency calling you was bullshit! I have had a lady stay longer on more then one occasion and you know what, its good for business. Its GFE. But I always ask if times up when it gets close. On the other hand, if she is f.. up her next appointment, shame on her. I have an idea who this agency may be, the operator can be a real bitch and very unpleasent. Wish you would share this with everyone!
Chris, I don't think you are trippin. You did exactly what you are supposed to do.
Here is my take on the time vs $ issue. If the envelope is given at the beginning of the date then the time keeping is completely my responsibility. If the envelope is saved until the end then more responsibility lies on the gentleman. Once the exchange is made the responsibility falls back on me. Does this make sense? If you see that we have gone over on time and I still haven't received my gift then I am assuming that you are wanting more time and will compensate for it. If the gift is given during the scheduled time then it is my choice to let you stay longer and no additional compensation is expected.
In your case the gift was given during the scheduled time. After that it is her call to stay or go.