A local radio show had a "high-end" escort in for an interview this morning, following up from the "Luv-Guv" scandal earlier in the week.

It was a good interview.  The hosts asked many of the usual questions handled on the TER discussion boards.  The escort, who has been out of the hobby for a few years, gave honest answers.

One line of questioning concerned her "feelings" for her clients.  "Did she ever feel anything?"
Her response was, "No-Never".  She went on to explain that she tried to make her clients believe that she loved every minute of their company...but that it was all fake & in some cases, very -very good acting. She claimed GFE, but not PSE, and that she had good reviews.

We all know fantasy is the nature of this hobby and some girls seem to enjoy the work more than others.  

Still, I hate when I hear a pro, or former pro totally disregard the connection aspect...as if she wasn't human.
Maybe she's couching her memories this way in order to move on in the civilian world...or she could have been just a cold fish, unable to feel anything with anyone.

I hate to burst your bubble, but most ladies see their clients as a wallet--- period. Some clients  are just less odious than others.  Some ladies fake the "enjoyment" better than others too.

I'm not saying providers have no feelings, but it's their JOB to make you feel SPECIAL even if you are a smelly  geriatric leper with a 2 inch cock.

You think ladies LIKE fucking old fat bald guys? LOL

Happy Hobbying!  

Fuzzy




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Dont get me wrong you can have and hopefull will develope some friendships in this hobby but dont forget the FACT that you are PAYING for companionship. It is what it is.......

Its a fantasy ......dont believe it.....just enjoy it.

Well, I partially agree with Fuzzy. Most of the time, the connection between provider and hobbyist is about the same as the connection between waitress and customer. On the other hand, real friendships do sometimes turn up, as with any service job.

Heck, once in a great while a provider isn't even faking her orgasms.

People just love to talk about this when a high profile guy gets caught with his pants down.

Just this morning Howard Stern had on a guy from NY who ran a high end escort service before Eliot took him down.

I try not to get drawn into the conversation around the water cooler!

I was quiet upset when one of my regs called me this morning early not to mention not one time but 2 times and said Ashlie they are talking about you on the radio!! I was like huh what? He said Ashlie wake the fuck up and turn on your radio a few minutes earlier then you normally do. So i stumble around with the remote turn it on and low and behold a lady is on there naming off websites and talking about the biz....


Okay I have a couple of personal issues with this. First of all you need to be a tad bit more evasive when answering questions as remember bitch this used to be your income. Or do you remember that? You are no better then anyone else out here who still does it. Remember that whether you are still in it or not you are no better then anyone else!!!


And 2nd of all maybe they should listen to the other side of things, why you guys do this. Some of you want and need sex all of the time, some of you have fantasies that are not fulfilled, some of you have companionship hard times. I mean get real people!!!!

Well it is now time for me to go jump in with the Libertarians and the COYOTE (Call Off Your Tired Ethics) groups and try to decriminalize this issue... The WILL always be going on!!

It's a game, and like any game it's only fun when everybody plays mostly by the rules. It works best when the girls pretend we're handsome, charming, sexy and cool; and when we show up at the agreed upon time, show respect, follow the girl's rules, give the gift, and leave at the agreed upon time. Anything more is both rare and a bonus.

It's always a business transaction.

Anyone involved looking for True Love, Provider or Hobbyist, has chosen almost exactly the wrong way to go about it.

On the other hand, a healthy, stable, adult personality isn't exactly a given in the hobby on either side.

"You think ladies LIKE fucking old fat bald guys? LOL"

Oh my...where do I begin? Old guys kiss better, love better, and definitely know how to treat a lady. Fat guys don't get caught up in how beautiful they are, nor do they demand that a woman have a perfect body. Bald guys? They are just plain SEXY!!!! So what happens when you combine it all and get a fat old bald guy? You get experience, heart, and some good old fashioned HOT lovin'!

(There are exceptions, of course).

This issue has been covered a zillion times.  If you feel something special and connecting with a provider beyond a good time, pleasantries, and an orgasm, it means two things:

She did her job

and

You need a life/therapist cuz ya looking for love/intimacy/real feelings in all the wrong places

A provider feels as much for you as any single proprietor feels selling any product in the world. That you are a dollar.  And usually the better my customer service, then the more dollars I may get.  Doesn't matter if you spend $100, $300, or $1500.  Doesn't matter how many jokes you share on the board.  Its Nothing more, nothing less.  

And thats the way it should be. Just fine.

But, I still think that we should all try to move this forward.... Not exactly rant week either lmao I am not always like this, honestly you can and speak to me you will find that I am a sweet little girl but I do have a serious side when it comes to business just as anyone else does. I think I should go take some mydol (?sp) and have some chocolate and find me a man to have sex with hey Eliot I will pay you!!!! lmao!!!!

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I know there are fans of water torture too.  LOL  

Best to ya!

Fuzzy