On another board a question went out...what is a GFE? Only one provider knew! Has the Hobby world gone to crap? Why are there a bunch of providers advertising as GFE? So, I'll ask, what is a GFE? Let's find out who really is GFE! And, I may never have had a membership here but I seen drastic changes in this board, it's no longer for hobbyests, it's now more like Craig's List with moderaters who kiss the asses of low rent hookers, I can't rely on this board like I used to? Am I alone?

Just my .02

Well peoples terms of this have changed greatly over the years. I have always taken it as the atmosphere that was provided during a session, one that is more intimate and not rushed. Now all it is, is a matter of what services that are being provided which is just nonsense to me. Just cause a girl does this or that doesn't mean it is a GFE. It should be about the over all experience.

Re: Just my .02

lol... This topic has come up a few times over the years and it seemd to polarize Hobbiest and the providers who provide cbj and bbbj.
I feel GFE should be the same kind of experience you would feel if you were with your girlfriend, hence...GFE.
My girlfrind dosn't rush me, she likes to kiss and she does not require me to wear a condom for oral sex. She also enjoys daty. I think if a provider describes herself as GFE she should provide these services. Sadly many providers use this term who do not fit the discription and I think this is an injustice to the providers who do.

Were CBJ, no anal, and limited kissing ( i would have preferred more kissing ), but their company was fantastic, I felt like I was with my girl friend, and the love making went same way, very genuine and real.  I fell in love, at least for a few hours.

My other dates have all been big shows, great make pretend sex, fake Os, slobbering BJS, multiple crazy positions, lots of sexy talk, great fun, loved them all, but those GFEs got inside me some how. It's like doing a line of the hard stuff, you gotta be careful or you'll get addicted.

Gfe is, as stated previously, like a girlfriend. I've never worn a condom for a bj with a girlfriend.   Gfe=dfk,bbbj along with the atmosphere

are all the new guys with no history of reviews or participation bitching about things.  The process is very simple.  Do some research, read reviews and you should be fine.  

All the guy did was ask a question. Isn't that what boards like these are all about? If he's new give him a chance to review and post,I myself have been reading this board for years but never posted or reviewed,doesn't make me a leper! Attitudes like yours are what keeps people like me, who just read and enjoy but never post...from saying anything. I am only posting now because I had to tell you that you're everything that is destroying the purpose of boards like these.And,let me tell you, your attitude is your best advertisement yet.You don't need reviews, everyone can see your disposition by your tolerance.

Very well said. Apparently some fail to realize that ter is not the only board. I for one live in California where there's a local board with more info about the local girls.  But when I'm traveling I hit ter to see how active it is in the area. That said I'm in Philly mon / tues night next week and now I know who I'm not seeing

And I think you've given many guys here an idea of who they are not seeing.

..... pretty often lately lurkers or as she said guys who don't contribute to ter other than paying VIP (MAYBE) pop up when they want to whine or bitch or INSULT. Her being right doesn't mean she has a bad attitude.... PLEASE.  What she said was on point.

You made her point. Thank you.

No white knights need to come defend you guys, you're both quite capable of kickin some serious ass here.

Some find it difficult to understand what contributing is. They seem to think all they need to do is post a message once in a while and that makes them a valuable contributor? Hell, it's the reviews others write that they come to benefit from and return nothing but BS hahaha.

Guys, she won't miss you, I don't think anyone will miss you hahaha

Kisses to a hobbyist who CONTRIBUTES.  Hahah!  Love you, sweetie and yes, I don't miss them at all...

GFE equals girlfriend experience. Which means sorry I'm watching my favorite show And after that I have a headache, and yes I am wearing my comfy clothes. Lmao. Honestly to me it's beng real, intimate and relaxing with the client. No bullshitting just like you would be if you guys went home together from a date. Meaning everyone wants to be there.  Kissing, touching, cuddling, and having fun!!! I am not going to go into explicits but I would imagine that it does include certain menu items. Some, but not others.

 I think the idea or true meaning of it hasn't really changed much thru the years. But yes providers or BP girls are just throwing it out there to get their hooks in and you through the door. But some of them have NO clue or just won't get comfy and intimate with their clients as some of us GOOD ones will and do.

 Amen for reviews!