Philadelphia
I Agree With You
And I wish that it worked both ways.
I have heard every excuse in the book for why someone is late and finally put it on my website that if you are over 15 minutes late that I will need to reschedule. I am not going to adjust my schedule and make my other guests adjust theirs to accommodate one late gentleman.
I will sometimes need a few minutes to finish "getting ready" after all I am a girl. Sometimes guys arrive early. I would like to be on time every time and I agree 5 minutes is really nothing in the grand scheme of things. 10 minutes is getting rude. 15 in my book is unacceptable. Completely unacceptable.
I have been on tours where without fail every single one of my guests was late, every one of them. It is ridiculous. I do not think ladies should book back to back because invariably something does happen. Maid time? Schedule. I want my room cleaned at X time every day. Call housekeeping when you check in and tell them. Make sure your calendar is clear for that 60-90 minutes. That's a great breakfast/lunch/dinner break.
I've had crazy shit happen in the midst of an appointment (like the water faucet literally breaking and unable to shut off, that was REAL fun). But that is few and far between.
I think that communication is best and honesty really is the best policy.
"I'm sorry I had a guy that just wouldn't shut his mouth and leave and he overstayed by 20 minutes and I really need to shower."
I mean, we all know that this IS a business and we want to convey that every person is special but it IS what it IS.
Being respectful of a lady's time goes both ways. Overstaying can and may fuck one of your buddies and you may not even realize it. Just sayin'.
~Rae Monroe
I ws reading a post and I thought it would be good to start another post on this subject. Lets talk about how you handle delays and blow offs when you are past your scheduled appointment time. This is when you show up on time and the girl delays, blows you offs, puts you off.. etc...
Any more, 30 minutes is all I will wait. By that time, I am so pissed that even if I went up I wouldn't have a good time. Now if there is some legit reasons, I may go with it..
I have heard it all, I need to take a shower, the maid is in the room, I am on my way from the airport.. etc...
The shower story, bull shit.. no more. I text or call back and tell them I like girls without makeup and for them to stay in their sweat pants, don't get dressed up for me. So the shower doesn't become an issue....
The maid issue. Bullshit, you can kick them out and they can come back. Who is working for who here...? Tell me the room number and let me see for myself as I descreetly walk by the room.
Airport, fuck that.. how the hell could you check in, get settled and be in any state of mind to do anything.
Depending on the response, you can usually tell if the excuse for being late is BS or legit. Take your money elsewhere and make them pay where it hurts... in their wallet. If more men left instead of waiting around , and around and around... then we would have a more punctual class of woman.
THIS GOES BOTH WAYS.. Guys if you are late.. then you should have to be held accountable and that means paying for your entire hour even if you only get 45 because you showed up late... You NSNC, you owe the girl money. You cancel last minute, you owe.
Just my opinion.
Shit happens so if it happens(canceling or running late) once or twice no biggie...roll with the punches BUT if it happens more often this is probably a sign that the provider is disorganized or sketchy so move on with out being pissed off. There is no sense in being mad over things like this and posting on the boards. It may scare off other providers. Just share the info among your buddies
to see if they are running late or on time and I arrive accordingly... But for some of us that leave work or plan our day around a little distraction.. A phone call say an hour before would be great.. " Hey.. I am running late.. can you come an hour later..?" or something like that would be great and professional..
How could you not be pissed if a provider made you wait..and gave you bogus excuses with no consideration of your time.. Your time is worth something as well..Don't you agree?
I am not pointing a finger at anyone... This is a discussion board. Lets have a discussion.
-- Modified on 11/12/2009 10:29:36 AM
You arrive on time arond noon to a well known provider who you have seen before. You put donation on table, dfk hello and start to chat. Provider then tells you she is beat, late night and you are her fourth. Would yo stay or reschedule. Now we all know that it is a businedd but still,
Most of your issues seem to come from the incall hotel visits...doing outcall to your place you might have better fortunes and even then when a time is set and 30-45 minutes goes by and the no show thoughts are in the air and no phone call is received as to why...that is disrespectful and ignorant and it happens....if its a total no show waiting 48 hours before bitching is a good idea because accidents can happen....ask Myra Mulligan.
I see nothing wrong to your post...to the answer underneath saying don't say this sort of thing it will discourage providers from coming...grow a pair and don't be so whipped....SOME of these gals overbook and if your the one on the outside your call does not even get acknowledged.....incall to many hassles, eyes on ya and who was there before you and how clean are the sheets is always a fly thought.
And I wish that it worked both ways.
I have heard every excuse in the book for why someone is late and finally put it on my website that if you are over 15 minutes late that I will need to reschedule. I am not going to adjust my schedule and make my other guests adjust theirs to accommodate one late gentleman.
I will sometimes need a few minutes to finish "getting ready" after all I am a girl. Sometimes guys arrive early. I would like to be on time every time and I agree 5 minutes is really nothing in the grand scheme of things. 10 minutes is getting rude. 15 in my book is unacceptable. Completely unacceptable.
I have been on tours where without fail every single one of my guests was late, every one of them. It is ridiculous. I do not think ladies should book back to back because invariably something does happen. Maid time? Schedule. I want my room cleaned at X time every day. Call housekeeping when you check in and tell them. Make sure your calendar is clear for that 60-90 minutes. That's a great breakfast/lunch/dinner break.
I've had crazy shit happen in the midst of an appointment (like the water faucet literally breaking and unable to shut off, that was REAL fun). But that is few and far between.
I think that communication is best and honesty really is the best policy.
"I'm sorry I had a guy that just wouldn't shut his mouth and leave and he overstayed by 20 minutes and I really need to shower."
I mean, we all know that this IS a business and we want to convey that every person is special but it IS what it IS.
Being respectful of a lady's time goes both ways. Overstaying can and may fuck one of your buddies and you may not even realize it. Just sayin'.
~Rae Monroe
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