Well since I've come back to the business there seems to be a change in the attitude of guys. I understand I'm running a business, but I'm actually doing this for the pleasure. Unlike most girls, I see maybe one client a day. Because of this I don't look at it as money for services rendered. I see it more as money exchanged for an hour of time with the understanding that BOTH party's involved are there to enjoy each others company and hopefully get a large amount of pleasure. The whole attitude of, "Well I'm paying you, so not only should you do this, but I also should also get this, this and this." To me is a little disturbing.  

I really enjoy what I do and I think it shines through in my sessions. When I start to feel like I'm obligated to provide certain services because I've been paid for it. It kinda takes the whole fun thing out of it. If I did all my sessions the exact same it would also take away all the fun.

I would like to hear some opinions about this subject from clients and as well as providers.

Kisses,
Karina


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Throughout the time I have known you, you have always made seeing an escort more like a friends with privaleges evening rather than a "pay for play"  - even to remembering details... going out to dinner, laughing and crying over all the things that happen in life.... Much Like I imagined marriage should be like, and not as it was.

yea, some guys just don't get the fun aspect of the hobby, the intimacy and the sexual excitment that comes with it.  I do.

Fun shared is doubled. I'm there to have fun with someone. Sure, there is acting and role play involved, sometimes from both me and the provider, but by far the best sessions are those where we're both having a good time.

I don't forget the monetary side of the exchange (remembering that side is part of respecting partners), but if there isn't shared enjoyment (or convincingly faked shared enjoyment, which you can never rule out), it kills the experience for me.

Sure, there are lines. And yes, some people are 100% businesslike on both sides. Some are totally burned out. But businesslike doesn't mean either party has the right to act like an asshole.

For me this is purely recreation. I have a full time I go to every night. This is something I strictly do for pleasure. The money exchange part of it is just a bonus. I hope I didn't come across the wrong way in my original post. As for the whole time thing.... Well as many of you know I'm not a clock watcher. I never have been. If anything I've had many men remind me of the time and that they had to go. But with that being said, when someone comes to see me with certain expectations of what is going to happen. It kinda puts a damper on the whole mood. I think if more men would just try to enjoy the time they spend with a girl and not put such high expectation on what is going to happen, then they wouldn't feel let down if things don't go exactly as planned. I understand that you are paying for a service and you should get that service, but remember YMMV with everyone. So let's all relax and have fun.

I know that's what I'm gonna do. I just need someone to do it with!!!!!


Kisses,
Karina
302-507-9130

Welcome back Karina. We met a few years ago and had a great time. Regarding certain expectations... I will request a certain look...sexy dress or short skirt and heels but not platforms. Not a stripper look. Something a lady would wear if she went out and know men would look. Is that too much of an expectation. Really. More often than not I may be told "I don't have a skirt" or they say sure and then may or may not wear it. The visual stimulation is important. Any thoughts.

were in your living room with a blazing fire...

Your openess and honesty were wonderful... a true GFE...

My feeling is that you keep to your winning formula... that the cycle of demanding clients will cycle through and those who are looking for a true Girl Friend Experience will enjoy you that much more...

My guess is that most providers go through these kinds of things...

SexyK,
You define for me the meaning of the phrase "GFE." You are the yardstick against which I compare all the rest. You are the best. Keep doing what you do so well.