can afford it without going to the poor house or depriving your family from the things they need. Men see providers for many different reasons and if you're discreet, know how to play the game without harming anyone, and you're not feeling guilty or questioning yourself "why", then nothing is wrong with it. When I notice that my client is very shaky and nervous meeting me, I know he's doing it for the first time. I always ask, before we start, if he is sure about it and if he wants to leave is fine with me. If he decides to stay, after we're done I discuss the pros and contras of hobbying.
I explain how addictive it can be and that a guy need to have a self control and budget his income wisely and be careful. I show the boards and places where he can research about us. But I have to say....you're a stallion huh?

How many hours do you spend on this hobby?  Sounds like it must
be substantial.  If you see two providers a day during the week
then that's 2 hours in session plus probably another two hours
getting to, coming back, and setting up appointments.  That's
four hours a day not counting weekends!

Now if you pushing sixty, and have found that this hobby is your
true passion, than I guess it's ok.

But if your younger, spending that much time on any one thing
takes away from time spent doing other things.  And when I say
other things, that could be anything else that make lifes worth
while.

Give us your rough demographic so we can make a better call.

peace,
fr

Are you bragging or complaining?

Thank you

Given the right conditions and the right providers a client can go crazy into spending alot of money. You know you are in trouble when you are seeing more than one provider a week for all nighters.

The other sign is you are constantly going to bank making withdrawls. Having cash stashed away in the glove compartment of your car and other places. You know you are also in trouble when you are constantly running out of envelopes.

Each provider has something about them, that makes you want to try them out.

You can also tell you are in trouble when the provider tries to refuse a tip. Sometimes they tell by the session that you have a very strong addiction. What they will do is say "When can I see you again ?".

Then there are the chat rooms, discussion boards, and web cam sites. A provider will respond positively to one of your postings. You look her up and say "Man I got to get that". It is another aspect of seduction. The web cam sites providers will have you doing rosie palmer. Some will even meet you offline to get a higher return on their investment.

You go cold turkey and start up again in a few years with a vengence.  There are so many providers coming into the market that is hard to resist the urge to splurge. I continue to be amazed how many fine women are in the hobby now. They make sure that their hair is nice, exercise, etc. Then there are the initial contacts when making the appointments and their sexy voices.

If you think you have an adiction to the hobby, do community service so you have no free time. Put the energy you spent into the hobby into community service.

Sometimes I wonder if providers go home laughing real hard "Oh he is weak, he can't resist". One last thing the more you participate in the hobby the more you want.

I thought I was bad because I see 2 providers a week. Man, you blow me out of the water. I did see 3 providers one week. That was a very draining week. 2 providers a week is normally just what I need(or can handle without overdoing it).