If you wait until a gal who you really really want to see shows up at EPM and all of a sudden try to get verified in a rush, you're really not going to get the results you want. Sorry but they make it rather clear up front don't ask any silly questions. Or you should read that as "Don't ask any questions". If you have a TER membership especially, this really applies to you. Read the reviews of each lady and you should have zero questions.
Your goal is to "get in" with them. To pass their screening process at least 1 time. Then when you call again they will know you're cool. Unless you created issues after your 1st visit.
Your 1st contact should be "I want to see... (give them the option of 2 ladies). I have these days and times I am available to meet her. Give them at least 3 dates or appointment times. Be flexible. Something like "I would like to see lady A or Lady B on Tuesday from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM or Wednesday AM from 9:00 to Noon". By giving them a range of days and times, you're much more likely to find an open and available time.
Then follow it up with "Let me know what other information you need from me. Looking forward to working with you."
No small talk. Actually this advice works very well with almost any independent touring lady. They don't want to engage in 5 text messages about "how are you?" or "Wow, you're really hot". Save it for when she opens the door. Get to the point of why you're contacting them.
Never talk about the money or any specific acts. NEVER EVER! If your inter-voice feels compelled to "make sure" and to do your due diligence, tell that voice to shut up. That is exactly the kind of talk Uncle Leo will try to engage in. You should already know 1000% the price and the activities that are available if you have a full TER membership. There is zero need to try to verify that again.
I know some guys get nervous and have this overwhelming need to ask "just to make sure" but just don't do that. It is the #1, #2 and #3 reason guys get ghosted. Then they will cry they didn't ask and stupid questions just a very valid and simple question like, "does she do BBBJ or is it extra?" That is an epic dumb question for a girl with 100 reviews all saying she does BBBJ CIM with every customer and no mention of it costing extra. Act like Uncle LEO and you're going to get treated like Uncle LEO.
And if you're not willing to cough up personal information about yourself. Just avoid wasting your time and just go to an AMP. Speaking for someone who is in. I don't mind their screening because it also protects me. I like knowing they aren't taking any guy with a heartbeat and some cash. The goal initially should be to pop your EPM Cherry, then target ladies you really want to check out. Even after you're in, you should always try to avoid asking any questions. Almost every question you could possibly think of can be answered in her reviews. Message guys who have seen her if you have a special question.
