3 posts down a hobbyist complained about  a birthday wish to a well known and highly respected provider. Suggesting that the birthday wish be sent PM. When did it become wrong to be NICE to the ladies that are responsible for providing us all with countless hours of pleasure.
With all the BS and constant flaming and badgering going on I find a birthday wish quite refreshing. It is also informative. Believe it or not many of us Hobbyist form FRIENDSHIPS with the providers that we see. It also make it easier to have a GFE if the lady you are seeing is a FRIEND.


If you dont want to read a post.....skip it ...its not that hard  I read maybe 40% of the posts on this board.


Sorry for the rant but you guys need to lighten up.

This site for supposed to be fun...

Christoph


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I agree 100% Christoph!!! My steady lady treats me very well and I do the same for her too.We exchange birthday,Christmas,Valentines Day gifts.I have the exclusive honor of taking the photos of her that she puts on her website.I also get to choose some of the ones that she uses too.Lots of extra time in our sessions.We call each other just to say hi or talk about personal problems or see how each of us is feeling when one of us is sick.Problem is that too many guys out there only see these ladies as f**k toys and not as people.They think they're all cold,heartless,untrustworthy,unfeeling,and blinded by the almighty dollar.And while it's true that some are,I don't think that the majority are.But,then again,the guys that think this way are probably the ones that NEED these ladies the most,since their personality alone won't get them far with the ladies.Good post Chris!

There are no restrictions as far as I know on this board. So I guess the blaster has as much right as the well wisher, but you are correct it seems like common decency has fallen victim to something a little less nice.

Here is an extract of Thirsty's guideline posted a while ago.  My interpretation is that occasional "happy birthday" posting is acceptble, but not encouraged as it is borderline shilling.  

What I (Thirsty) DON’T allow:

Unsolicited threads initiated by hobbyists to profess their devotion to their ATF (hereafter known as “I love you Elizabeth! threads. I have allowed the occasional “Happy Birthday” post as long as I get a piece of the cake

The "I Love You Elizabeth" rule was inspired by a poster on NYC who used to literally post that message. I've posted a Happy Birthday message now and then. As long as the board doesn't get filled with private messages, it's all right. As someone else wrote, you don't have to read every thread.

thirsty

I for one appreciate the birthday wish and it meant alot to have acouple of unique gentlemen to send it to me...along with the e-mail's I recieved and I want to thank all of you for being special to me...thank you Chris for sticking up for me...

Tatiana

He wished someone he knew a happy birthday. How does that equate to a guy talking up a lady and her professional preformance to gain her business in return for a personal gain on his part?

Man the tone of this board is just turning down right miserable. If your not posting any classless crude details you shouldn't bother posting at all...is that it?

Hawk..it's attitudes like this guys that have driven off the the friendlier hobbyists from this board and turned them into lurkers.

Guys don't feel that they can post what they want here in fear of being ridiculed by guys who treat this hobby and the ladies in it as a face less game to be played with pieces of meat.

If you show one ounce of human compassion or friendliness towards anyone or everyone your labeled a shill.

My thoughts Exactly

If you like a particular agency or service or group you get clowned.  What gives ?