In my real life I review things constantly - and in case anyone wonders what - that shall remain a bit of a secret - however suffice to say that based upon my reviews - people gain a degree of notariety - or gain sometimes financially... that being said... review systems are what they are - ideally for this hobby - to get an honest review -

1) someone neutral would observe the session and take notes.
2) that person would interview the hobbiest and the provider after the session and incorporate that into the review.
3) the review would be written and each party would have an opportunity to read and comment on the reveiw....

Anyone like this - silence.... silence... silence...  I thought not.  so we are stuck with the review system that we have -

What do I do ?   I review the performance of the lady - each and every lady that I have reviewed started from the moment I walk through the door with a 7 in looks and a 7 in performance.  Everything that they do either raises the score - or lowers the score.  sad to say - many do not get off of 7!  why?  because their personality is either non-evident or they seem to not like the work - and are less interested in the act than others....   IF I have difficulty with someone who puts her heart into it - I have no problem giving her an 8 or 9!  not her issue - it is mine... go figure.

soooooo   for those who don't shave, smell are not clean - and are rude - if the gal doesn't turn you on - or acts distant - clean up your act - you may have a better outcome and YOUR scores will improve -

a thought - when I see a guy who consistantly gives gals 5, 6 and 7's I think - well - who would please him!?   and why is he not enjoying himself !

As you can see, I'm not big on writing reviews.  For me it's hard to take such a personal thing and objectify it.  I give hat's off to those who freely write them.

As to what they say.  I look for the signs of what it's like to be with the woman.  I'm looking for that ever elusive GFE, so it's not so much what she does as how she goes about doing it with her gentleman callers.

And for the guys who always seem to miss the mark and score 5's, 6's, 7's.  I don't get it.  I've consistently seen women who I would rate 8's and 9's.  If you take the time to do a little homework it's hard to go wrong.  Often the low score tells you more about the guy's inability to match his wants with her offerings.

And one last thought.  The question of cleanliness is seen frequently enough that it must be a fairly common issue.  I don't get that either.  I can't imagine not taking the time to freshen up before the date.  You wouldn't expect anything less from her.  Why would you not expect it of yourself?

Just sad that it's been a subject discussed Many Times; some just don't "get it".

Bravo guys for bringing it again...

BJ

I've been hobbying for years but new to reviews.Some of you guys really give the ladies a hard time (no pun intended).The review guidelines say start the lady's performance score with a 7 and if she provides/offers Anal,ReallyBi,French Kiss or BBBJ you should add 1 point.I see a lot of ladies getting 6s,7s and 8s in performance that really deserve more.

Now the looks department is a TOTALLY different story.If a girl is ugly,I don't care how good the service is.She doesn't deserve anything close to a 7.

We need to be honest and fair to ourselves and the ladies.

yes, the performance of additional acts does qualify a lady for additional points on the score... BUT ! how it is delivered will determine if the score is achieved.  much like the skating scores or diving scores in the olympics - the difficulty determines the max allowable - but the execution determins what is acutually awarded.

with respect to looks - I start with a 7 - that is my no expectations score....  so - i open the door - and am neither disappointed nor am I pleasantly surprised - the gal gets a 7 (hey - much better than the 5's some guys dole out!)

With respect to reviewing - there are a couple of gals I did not review - even after seeing them - suffice to say - there was something not right with the session - and I could not honestly determine why.  so rather than submit a review that would be misleading - either good or bad, I opted not to write - In one particular instance the lady told me a story that to this day, I struggle with - it was an incredible story - highly personal to the lady - but I am still pondering what she said.