I don't know if you would call it a fetish but whenever I'm with a provider or even my SO I almost always want to give a facial. It's not just the sight that turns me on but it also gives me some of the best cumshots I've ever been able to do. My question is, am I weird? Do many of you also have this desire to just unload on her face? What say you all??

Just my opinion here, but you did ask, so....     Personally, I feel the CIF is demeaning to the lady.  I guess if I was a psychiatrist, I'd come up with feelings of latent hostility on your part towards women.  But truthfully, that's out of my realm.  But I really do believe this has something to do with a need to demean women or maybe a form of domination by you.

No, I don't have the urge to do that, and as for weird...nah.  As long as the lady you're with is ok with your goo on her face, have at it.  But again, it ain't really my thing.

sounds like you watch too much porn- doesn't do anything for me,  but if it turns you on and the provider doesn't care -

I love it when a lady lets me CIM, and doesn't spit.  Yeah, her swallowing is a super turn-on for me.  So am I weird?  I don't think so, but I suppose the providers should really chime in on this thread.

Just don't get it in their hair, or eyes. They HATE that!  LOL  

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Frankie I definitely see the psychiatrical meaning behind your response but I in NO WAY would ever demean a woman. I've been w/ my SO for quite some time now and if she doesn't want me to do that then I don't push it.... I respect her wishes. I think women are the most precious things on earth and should be treated that way. Maybe I do watch to much porn. I dunno. But I think its more the eroticism behind the act that gets me off. And boy does it get me off

I've never understood the attraction.

No, you're not weird.  That is, unless you sit there scream "It puts the lotion on it's skin or else it gets the hose again"!  Now if you do that, yeah, seek some therapy.  The first person to tell me what movie that's from wins a prize.

BTW, my thing is to "frost the mountains".

I think it is way hotter to cum in my providers mouth...even if she chooses to spit...rather than a facial.

to each his own...right?

Besides, like what was said, they go to great lengths for makeup and hair...it isn't fair to do that sometimes...

oh yeah..... I love frosting them mountains too!!!  And the movie quote you're referring to is from The Silence of the Lambs.

A fetish is something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, which arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.

In reference to fetishes, the key term is object/ nonsexual. Fetishes are usually traceable to some form of classical conditioning or imprinting.

IMHO Ejaculating on a lady’s face or coming in her mouth are simply as normal variations of human sexuality, not a fetish. However, while the face is usually a non sexual part of the body, the mouth is….so there is a grey area there.

Long short if it, there should be no shame or blame in having preferences or fetishes. NEVER consider yourself weird or unusual because of your sexual desires. Embrace it!

I applaud you for being honest with yourself as well as the board with your desires. It shows that you are in tune with your sexuality. That is a HUGE turn on!I bet you’re the life of the party behind closed doors!

OK, come a little closer...I have your present for you!

But a good partner also takes time to do what his/her partner likes.

~ Zola

No my guy also loves it's like giving him a diamond when I say… hey baby ya want the money shot. lol

That’s funny I always get pissy when he gets it in my hair. O but that’s an other fetish. lol