It has been 2 weeks since my disasterous Friday night.  Posting on the board with questions about the perception of Philly by ladies of the hobby.  

My observation is that the "tone" of the Philly Board has changed.  And I have also noticed that some of the traveling ladies and agencies are listening - and willing to, at least, give us a go.  I've also noticed the number of posts and the tone of the posts, for the most part, are more playful, and flirtatious.... ALL GOOD changes.

If we are good boys, I would be willing to bet, it will get even better!  Guys, lets not blow it.  and resident ladies, remember, the better the hobbying atmosphere, in general, the better your business is likely to be.

to all, please be respectful - if you call and make an appointment - by all means keep the appointment, but if you cannot make it, call the lady on the phone and let her know.

2nd (and this is to ME!) BSD, please, if you are out with a lady, let her know that you think that she is the bees knees!  You should get back to bringing her something special for the evening (candles, gift card, or nice bath products...etc).  Remember, you are going to spend quality time - with a quality lady, perhaps you should plan the time - and the amount of time accordingly.

Gents, be well groomed - I've never ever had a problem - but I brush my teeth, comb my hair, and take a shower before showing up!

Don't hastle the lady... either on the phone or in person.  it tis, what it tis.

Ladies - we would appreciate the same in return...

If we keep to this - perhaps more will come our way.... or at least that is my plan - !  

From the responses I received, the above was a general consensus (both from locals and traveling providers).  

From the traveling only, I heard the following:

It is difficult to come, obtain a room (often above 150-200 a night, pay for meals and travel, only to have maybe one client.  Gents, if a lady posts that she will be here - then by all means reserve time with her to let her know we do wish her here.  AND then when she comes to see you, don't be a no show - that costs the lady MONEY!  The ladies cannot read our minds... With prebooking they will know if they are likley to have enough business to pay for the trip.

Finally, we all know why we are here, and what we want, be truthful about what is offered and what is not (to both hobbiests and providers).  (for the gents $$$ and for the ladies - services)

if you did not have a good time, ask if you yourself contributed to it.... and quit blaming the other party, unless there was no effort to provide what was agreed upon.

To all who responded - thank you...

-- Modified on 3/21/2007 3:20:08 PM