Re: can I get some feedback??

Just my opinion here, but you did ask, so....     Personally, I feel the CIF is demeaning to the lady.  I guess if I was a psychiatrist, I'd come up with feelings of latent hostility on your part towards women.  But truthfully, that's out of my realm.  But I really do believe this has something to do with a need to demean women or maybe a form of domination by you.

No, I don't have the urge to do that, and as for weird...nah.  As long as the lady you're with is ok with your goo on her face, have at it.  But again, it ain't really my thing.

sounds like you watch too much porn- doesn't do anything for me,  but if it turns you on and the provider doesn't care -

Just don't get it in their hair, or eyes. They HATE that!  LOL  

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I've never understood the attraction.

No, you're not weird.  That is, unless you sit there scream "It puts the lotion on it's skin or else it gets the hose again"!  Now if you do that, yeah, seek some therapy.  The first person to tell me what movie that's from wins a prize.

BTW, my thing is to "frost the mountains".

I think it is way hotter to cum in my providers mouth...even if she chooses to spit...rather than a facial.

to each his own...right?

Besides, like what was said, they go to great lengths for makeup and hair...it isn't fair to do that sometimes...

From a lady’s viewpoint…..

A fetish is something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, which arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.

In reference to fetishes, the key term is object/ nonsexual. Fetishes are usually traceable to some form of classical conditioning or imprinting.

IMHO Ejaculating on a lady’s face or coming in her mouth are simply as normal variations of human sexuality, not a fetish. However, while the face is usually a non sexual part of the body, the mouth is….so there is a grey area there.

Long short if it, there should be no shame or blame in having preferences or fetishes. NEVER consider yourself weird or unusual because of your sexual desires. Embrace it!

I applaud you for being honest with yourself as well as the board with your desires. It shows that you are in tune with your sexuality. That is a HUGE turn on!I bet you’re the life of the party behind closed doors!

But a good partner also takes time to do what his/her partner likes.

~ Zola

Re: can I get some feedback??

No my guy also loves it's like giving him a diamond when I say… hey baby ya want the money shot. lol