Never feel bad for an honest opinion of looks and service. I am not saying be brutally honest, but be honest. A fair review is all we ask. She was better looking then average, and gave above average service, that is not a bad review.
OK - little head and eyeballs poping out over an advertisement on Eros. I call to make the apt. with what I presumed was an indy... only to be greated by a male voice... I figure - ok... maybe she has a screener (some indys do) but it was in reality a B&S operation.
Trouble is, again, I felt sorry for the lady - maybe a 6 or so in looks (maybe even higher...) I suspect that she is pregnant... and I just cannot get into the session.... she tries... (peprformance is around a 5 or 6) and I felt bad for her- as she made a couple of comments that indicated to me that she knew I was not having a great time.... do I write a review... if I am honest - it would screw her business... and if she is pregnant... well, she probably is gonna need the money.... What do I do? help!
was she not the girl in the pics? eyes poping out but you give her a 6. You felt sorry for her, I maybe would have too, but you should still make us aware IMHO.
You very well may get many different opinions on this issue. There is a saying "there are as many opinions as there are assholes"
If it's a B&S that should be told.
As for the review, I will offer how I approach the issue. I fully understand that YMMV and sometimes you just don't click. That being said, I won't write a bad review based on those conditions, no review.
One exception, if it's a rip-off, then we owe each other to let it be known. On this board or other places.
My 2 cents.
Let the opinions fly......
Bro, I'm worried about you. You are getting soft-- take a Viagra! ![]()
Seriously, pregnant or not, it sounds like a B&S, and you did NOT like the session. You owe the board an honest review warts, and all!
-- Modified on 10/17/2007 11:09:11 AM
Never feel bad for an honest opinion of looks and service. I am not saying be brutally honest, but be honest. A fair review is all we ask. She was better looking then average, and gave above average service, that is not a bad review.
imho, this board is here to let other hobbyists know what to expect, taking some amount of uncertainty out of the equation. There's nothing wrong with letting fellow hobbyists know that this is a B&S operation, regardless of the circumstances of the provider. To me, b&s is basically stealing other's money, especially when the clientel often pursue the hobby at great risk themselves and almost invariably are paying top dollar. If someone expects to get paid for a service, then they need to be honest about it and perform the service well. If they can't do that, they have no business wasting other's time and money with dishonesty and lackluster performance, and, failing the search for other employment, should look to welfare programs or charitable services.
BTW, there are plenty of providers out there making plenty of money who the average guy would not find physically attractive, but would fit the bill for a select few.
I would probably write a review acknowledging what you already mentioned in this post. I would want to know about B&S & if it happened to me, I would want you to know.
if it was a B/S then I think you'll do us all a favor to report it. That's what these boards are for, useful info on those kind of things.
If it wasn't and you feel that it was more of a YMMV than use your discretion, I wouldn't throw the chick under the bus just because she wasn't into you.
If you felt like you were deceived then surely post something for the rest of us.
Truly a dilemma, but what would you want others to write if you were on the other side? How 'bout you write it as it happened, with your more-than-cnaritable caveats above and let us mongers sort it out. Anyone who reads this board regularly knows you are a straight shooter with no intent to hurt anyone. Selfish, but I work damn hard for the after-tax $$ I spend on this 'life experience' and would rather spend them on an enjoyable experience than not.
No Brainer. Save the next guy.
I have no luv or respect for B&S....I think there have been at least 6 responses to this post and they are all correct. You are obligated to let us know who the ad was for and write the fair review.
You got to do the write thing and let your fellow hobbying brothers know the truth.
Chris
-- Modified on 10/17/2007 12:12:21 PM
Good advice from all above. I concur with everyone. Understand how you feel. But you can be honest without being nasty, denigrating, and demeaning - and from what I know of you, you will be fair and factual.
Biz, you can't keep it to yourself now that you have posted here. The reason this board and this site exists is for sharing information that cannot be gleaned elsewhere. You have information that can help others, as others in the past and in the future will post information that will help you. You can't keep it under your hat - you MUST post a review!!!
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