The first thing I do when I meet or do doubles with a provider, I exchange my blacklist of guys who are definite LE or unsafe (due to experience), lied or given false refs, no-shows, a fellow provider warned you about or has hurt, ripped off, or are just the type of people that us ladies do not trust, are comfortable with, and refuse to see again or at all......you know the list. You start out by locking them in as "NO" and "No answer" Until you cannot differentiate them and then are forced to sit and sort them on a list.......LOL....hope I make sense......
Are you ladies up for sharing those blacklisters? I will share mine with anyone who wants to be safe and keep others safe too! I care for each girls safety whether we like eachother or not, have spoke before or not, it's about being safe.
My e mail is [email protected] or you can call me if you would like to share info, possibly have a providers lunch or night we can all meet up to compare notes and share horror stories. #267-347-0854
As you see my posts week to week, and since I first started back in 2001, I spend quite a bit of time in KOP. I often have days where I cannot find a room besides Motel 6 due to conventions, and in that case I ask clients if they mind driving 10 minutes (if that) to the next city over, Plymouth Meeting, and you would be suprised to see how many cancel on me and reschedule because of a 5-10 minute difference, and its a little bit safer area.
I want to know what is a convenient area for KOP guys to come instead, and how many miles are you willing to drive?
Please e mail me privately if you want to specifically see me and KOP is your usual hobby town and/or we have met 1 or more times in KOP and you intend to see me again sometime, and/or we regularly meet in KOP once a week or once every couple months, so we can establish a safer place to play without the world knowing.
If you don't want to see me, then post areas that you will travel outside of KOP for other providers to see and work safely.
I am all about discretion and safety and with my 30th b-day combing next month, I may start my semi-retirement by going UTR, putting my new pics on my site that are less revealing and identifying, as well as removing and changing my number but giving it to those I know only. I also may require 2 refs and a 2 hr minimum for newbies, but stick to regs mostly.
It sucks because there are great new hobbyists that are first timers everyday, just as there is a new provider starting everyday. I will contemplate over the weekend but if you can let myself and other ladies know what alternatives you are willing to try other then KOP, it would be truly appreciated.
Thank you!
The first thing I do when I meet or do doubles with a provider, I exchange my blacklist of guys who are definite LE or unsafe (due to experience), lied or given false refs, no-shows, a fellow provider warned you about or has hurt, ripped off, or are just the type of people that us ladies do not trust, are comfortable with, and refuse to see again or at all......you know the list. You start out by locking them in as "NO" and "No answer" Until you cannot differentiate them and then are forced to sit and sort them on a list.......LOL....hope I make sense......
Are you ladies up for sharing those blacklisters? I will share mine with anyone who wants to be safe and keep others safe too! I care for each girls safety whether we like eachother or not, have spoke before or not, it's about being safe.
My e mail is [email protected] or you can call me if you would like to share info, possibly have a providers lunch or night we can all meet up to compare notes and share horror stories. #267-347-0854
The first thing I do when I meet or do doubles with a provider, I exchange my blacklist of guys who are definite LE or unsafe (due to experience), lied or given false refs, no-shows, a fellow provider warned you about or has hurt, ripped off, or are just the type of people that us ladies do not trust, are comfortable with, and refuse to see again or at all......you know the list. You start out by locking them in as "NO" and "No answer" Until you cannot differentiate them and then are forced to sit and sort them on a list.......LOL....hope I make sense......
Are you ladies up for sharing those blacklisters? I will share mine with anyone who wants to be safe and keep others safe too! I care for each girls safety whether we like eachother or not, have spoke before or not, it's about being safe.
My e mail is [email protected] or you can call me if you would like to share info, possibly have a providers lunch or night we can all meet up to compare notes and share horror stories. #267-347-0854
I have never had the pleasure of seeing you, but here is my two cents: Plymouth Meeting seems great alternative; it is close, easy to get to by highway, and has a fairly "anonymous" feeling. I can't image a place closer to KOP. Conshohoken would be fine as well, though no closer.
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Airport is good, there are is the Mitcom that is nice and clean. I think its not the distance as much as it is not knowing the area.
I do not want to be to far from my comfort zone. You think its a sting or somthing. Also changing things makes me wonder why, wether its LE or crazy client before, change is bad as far as the nerves go.
I agree that airport is a safer alternative. Although the area is farther away from high income KOP client base, it is compensated by poorer district and higher crime rate to keep LE busy. I don't remember the last time airport providers were busted.
PM is also another safer alternative thus far. I can't believe guys won't take 10 more minutes to see providers in PM. I routinely drive 1 to 1.5 hours to see providers in CNJ. I go whereever the activities, choice and rate are the best. Even adding the gas cost, the value is still superior to what I can get locally. Besides, if I get caught, my name won't appear in my local paper.
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It never ceases to amaze me how some of you guys are so unbelievably paranoid!! If you're that worried and paranoid how can this be any fun???
that the KOP dudes would not go to PM. I've been to both - and have to agree that the profile in PM is less - motels are just as nice (if not nicer) and there is less traffic at the 422 Mall areas of KOP....
so, just my opinion - but both are ok by me...
I don't see any problem with Plymouth Meeting, since it is so close to KOP, but I am used to traveling up to 2 hours to see some ladies; maybe the gentlemen of KOP have had the luxury of staying in their own city/town, and so they may be disappointed about having to go outside of their immediate area (just a guess, nothing personal against the gentlemen of KOP).
As someone mentioned above, the Airport has a few good hotels in its vicinity. There is a Hampton Inn, a Marriot, etc. All of them range from pretty good to pretty darn good, and they all have ample parking.
Personally, I hate that there are issues for KoP because it is really convenient for me. However, I agree with the sentiment against getting busted.
Toward Philadelphia, Plymouth Meeting and Conshohocken are both good alternatives to KoP. I suspect that the guys who cancel when you move there are not local and don't realize how close they are to KoP.
In the other direction, there are Malvern and Exton. Both are in Chester County, which may help on the LE front (KoP being MontCo), though I must admit to lacking expertise on this issue. I don't believe they have as many hotels as KoP, but both should be pretty easy to reach for anyone that is able to go to KoP.
Either way you may lose some guys because KoP is so central, but you might pick up a few from Philadelphia or Chester County as well.
All are easy, convenient for many, nice hotels, etc....
I love Plymouth Meeting, Conshy or Fort Washington! If I had to take my pick as to which would be my favorite...then it would be PLYMOUTH MEETING! Reason: Smaller township with way smaller police force, safer area, great mall with great inside & outside restuarants and convient to blue route, turnpike, Sk Expway and Germantown Pike. Probably dead right in the middle between the Philly and KOP. Fort Washington probably only one great hotel but very safe right off the turnpike. I like the two hotels in Conshy but for some reason that area makes me very cautious? Would love to come see you again someday in QTown!
For those that don't want to leave KOP; NO PROBLEM. You rent the room.