I wanted to share my recent experience. After months of looking I have not found a petite local provider so i decided to to take a chance. I spotted Hiedi on BP. The photo was familiar.... I had seen it on adult search earlier in the week. I noted that the phone number is different one area code was 202 the other 786. All the red bells went off but she was absolutely the perfect type. I called and set up a meeting at an airport hotel. I made several small requests which were agreed to. As the door opened I was greeted by nude young woman.  Strike 1 I had asked her to be clothed w/ heels. Strike 2 She obviously was not the girl in the photo. Strike 3 She starting explaining she had changed her hair. At that point I politely thanked her and let myself out. The only thing I lost was my time. All the posts I've read here allowed me to think clearly enough to keep my money.

Too many times we let the little head do the talking, and I had been guilty of doing that a couple of times myself in years past.

The last two times, I excused myself and walked out. Unfortunately, I didn't have a plan B the last time and ended up in the bar with blue balls. I woke up a hang over, but a full wallet to play another day.

I have also found that many of the B&S providers are very weak in their screening.

Sticking with well reviewed providers will eliminate most of the B&S. Regardless, we all have risks when playing in the P4P arena.

Never had a b/s or bad setup to want to walk, but wondered what I'd do if it happened. Concern she has my cell # and email and would not want to be.... What do you do about that?

I surprised myself... being able to ignore the little head talking. I have gotten a google voice number, which is  free, so I'm more comfortable making and receiving calls. And many providers, especially on BP, don't want anything to do with email. So I free fairly safe.
I was just thinking, if the provider had have been up  front about her appearance and what she could and couldn't do. I probably would have completed the session And I still hear that little voice..... I am sure I would have completed the session.