OK - little head and eyeballs poping out over an advertisement on Eros.  I call to make the apt. with what I presumed was an indy... only to be greated by a male voice... I figure - ok... maybe she has a screener (some indys do) but it was in reality a B&S operation.

Trouble is, again, I felt sorry for the lady - maybe a 6 or so in looks (maybe even higher...) I suspect that she is pregnant... and I just cannot get into the session.... she tries... (peprformance is around a 5 or 6) and I felt bad for her- as she made a couple of comments that indicated to me that she knew I was not having a great time.... do I write a review... if I am honest - it would screw her business... and if she is pregnant... well, she probably is gonna need the money.... What do I do?  help!

was she not the girl in the pics? eyes poping out but you give her a 6.  You felt sorry for her, I maybe would have too, but you should still make us aware IMHO.

You very well may get many different opinions on this issue. There is a saying "there are as many opinions as there are assholes"
If it's a B&S that should be told.
As for the review, I will offer how I approach the issue. I fully understand that YMMV and sometimes you just don't click. That being said, I won't write a bad  review based on those conditions, no review.
One exception, if it's a rip-off, then we owe each other to let it be known. On this board or other places.
My 2 cents.
Let the opinions fly......

imho, this board is here to let other hobbyists know what to expect, taking some amount of uncertainty out of the equation.  There's nothing wrong with letting fellow hobbyists know that this is a B&S operation, regardless of the circumstances of the provider.  To me, b&s is basically stealing other's money, especially when the clientel often pursue the hobby at great risk themselves and almost invariably are paying top dollar.  If someone expects to get paid for a service, then they need to be honest about it and perform the service well.  If they can't do that, they have no business wasting other's time and money with dishonesty and lackluster performance, and, failing the search for other employment, should look to welfare programs or charitable services.

BTW, there are plenty of providers out there making plenty of money who the average guy would not find physically attractive, but would fit the bill for a select few.

I would probably write a review acknowledging what you already mentioned in this post.  I would want to know about B&S & if it happened to me, I would want you to know.

Bro, I'm worried about you.  You are getting soft-- take a Viagra!  

Seriously, pregnant or not, it sounds like a B&S, and you did NOT like the session. You owe the board an honest review warts, and all!



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if it was a B/S then I think you'll do us all a favor to report it.  That's what these boards are for, useful info on those kind of things.

If it wasn't and you feel that it was more of a YMMV than use your discretion, I wouldn't throw the chick under the bus just because she wasn't into you.

If you felt like you were deceived then surely post something for the rest of us.

Truly a dilemma, but what would you want others to write if you were on the other side? How 'bout you write it as it happened, with your more-than-cnaritable caveats above and let us mongers sort it out. Anyone who reads this board regularly knows you are a straight shooter with no intent to hurt anyone.  Selfish, but I work damn hard for the after-tax $$ I spend on this 'life experience' and would rather spend them on an enjoyable experience than not.

No Brainer. Save the next guy.

I have no luv or respect for B&S....I think there have been at least 6 responses to this post and they are all correct. You are obligated to let us know who the ad was for and write the fair review.

You got to do the write thing and let your fellow hobbying brothers know the truth.


Chris


-- Modified on 10/17/2007 12:12:21 PM

Never feel bad for an honest opinion of looks and service.  I am not saying be brutally honest, but be honest.  A fair review is all we ask.  She was better looking then average, and gave above average service, that is not a bad review.

Biz, you can't keep it to yourself now that you have posted here.  The reason this board and this site exists is for sharing information that cannot be gleaned elsewhere.  You have information that can help others, as others in the past and in the future will post information that will help you.  You can't keep it under your hat - you MUST post a review!!!

Good advice from all above. I concur with everyone.  Understand how you feel. But you can be honest without being nasty, denigrating, and demeaning - and from what I know of you, you will be fair and factual.

Classy post, Janelle. Thank you.

We have been fortunate to have many, many classy ladies from Florida visit over the last several months - many threads over the last few days demonstrate that and we're glad you will be here. Hope you have a great trip.

lady in question clearly works for an agency - and the agency could care less about her welfare... or her "experience" in the room as long as the collect.  That is one reason I went through with the session... I did not wish her to come to no good.  as I say, she seemed very nice.... sweet.... My review will not reflect badly on her rather the B&S aspect of the situation.

as far as reviews, she has none.  nor did the phone # pull up a review list... that too, was an unheeded clue (as in "get a clue" lol!).

I - in a previous incarnation - wrote a bad (ok, borderline) review of a lady who usually got good reviews...  when she read the review, she actually PMed me... and said that she did not realize that was how she came off.... I think that in the long run... it helped her (sort of a QC thing).  

This is a funny business.... and I honestly don't quite know how to categorize stuff... but I have to say - there are women who just turn me on... and others do not.  For some guys... they can do anyone... I cannot.  When I walk in the room - it is either gonna click or not.  in this instance, I knew it was 50/50 that it was gonna work - as there was no personality in the add or picture... just a hot body... I need more.

Again, your perspective is very valuable... and for the record, having a bad tummy is not something I would count against you!  heck - I had a bad tummy with a provider... and I was totally embarassed.... but my review of her - was really good... she is a fave of mine locally = but I do not get to see her as much as I would like.... (my schedule - not hers!)