Most sites I visit have sections on no show, rude or unclean  hobbyiests.  I request that providers give us the same courtesy they would like to see.  For some of us, our window of opportunity are limited and it may be complicated to arrange time for a visit.  I was recently strung along for 4 days by a prjovider who posted her availability for 9?12.  Four days of contact, references provided, e-mail exchanges, tentative times a promised phone call and finally no contact.  Please ladies, be thoughtful of our situation and treat us with some respect as well.  Just say NO if it won't work and let us move on to other options rather than stringing us along for days.