She even joins me from time to time as she is bi. She works as a provider and it makes her feel less guilty about what she does. I hobby because she wants me to. And before you go, "Why don't you get anther job so she can quit." or some other such thing, I already make more than enough money to pay all of our bills. She does not need to provide to support herself, she does so for other reasons that are not you concern. I am not her pimp.

I wish she would quit and we could go back to the monogamous marriage like before she returned to providing. If my wife even hinted she wanted me to stop hobbying I would no questions asked. I don't see as many providers as she would allow, not that it is any of your business. She even approve the ladies I see before I see then. I would do anything for my wife, including leave her if it was best for her, but it is not.

I know you are looking out for my wife, and for that thank you. But you don't know the whole story so you are not in a position to advise. It is good to look after the ladies and for that I can not fault you. I wish you well.