I'm 50 and have been in the hobby about 4 years.  My ATF retired about 2 years ago and I've struggled a bit to find someone I'm comfortable enough with, and enjoy myself enough with, to establish a regular relationship.  I'm real shy and quiet at first, so if the chemistry isn't there at the start I don't always enjoy the 'excitement' of meeting someone new.  I'm trying the trial and error route, but thought I'd ask for suggestions.  I'd like to meet a young, pretty, intelligent provider who is more sensual than wild and would enjoy fairly regular visits with a pretty nice guy.  Any suggestions?