I am SOOOOOOO FURIOUS right now.  I am very careful about who I see and ALWAYS
ask for a few references.  And guess what? I DO CHECK THEM.  Well, here is the story.

Guy contacts me for a date, gives me a name of a provider that he has seen recently.  This
is the only reference he has.  

I contact the Lady versus IM since I see her online.  She goes on and on about how she would
never and I repeat NEVER see him again.  He tried to force himself on her and was rude and
very pushy!!!This went on and on and I felt sorry for her.  I told her I was even sorry for
what she had to go through.  

I recieve another email from this guy asking if I checked him out yet cause he really wants to
see me.  Again, gives me the email of this Lady and encourges me to contact her.  She will
give a good reference.  Is what he said.  THEN..........I read the forwarded email that this "lady'
sent him saying how she is coming to town and would LOVE to see him.  

Now Ladies, you know that I ALWAYS try to give a on time response to references. I know
that for some ladies, no references, no date.....so I make sure to email back.  And I always
email a HONEST reference.  Never ever would I say such a thing about a guy then go behind
that ladies back and email him myself. NEVER!!!!  

So Ladies, if you would like the name and email of this so called "lady" please email me for
you will know not to use her as a trustworthy person.  And I know this person uses this board, and YES I am talking about you.  So shame shame shame shame on you!!!!!!!!
You have been caught.

Candy

If you have not read Part 1 please do so before reading this.  
It will make alot more sense to you.

Anyways, after emailing my friends in private, I found out that
i have not been the only one that this person has lied to about
references.  

This person tells me one thing and then changes her story fast.
She told me she blocked his emails after there first date.  Then
tells me that he keeps emailing her. This guy has forwarded emails
that she has written.  First in the beginning it was, " I am coming to town, etc etc"  Then "Sure, I would love to see you" THEN once i
posted my thread and this guy confronted her, she changed her
story and emailed him saying he tried this and that when she already
told him no.  And on and on.  A big difference in emails.  And a
strange thing that she recieves these emails to communicate with
him since she DID tell me that his emails are blocked.

i do believe us Ladies do have a sisterhood.  Even if we have not
meet, or really dont care for this person.  I feel that most of the
Ladies will still give references.  I have a bunch of providers that
I consider to be friends with.  i believe them when they say stay
away!!!  But something was just not right with this one. So I am
glad I did a little detective work.

BUT..........when I was answering all the emails, I didn't put ALL
her information on it.  So you might not know who I am talking
about.  I will gladly email you her name and website.  She tends
to use two names and I only put down the last one.  I want to
make sure that the people who want to know.....gets the right
information.

I know some feel that this should be posted on the boards.  I plan
on posting in the Ladies Only group.  And do back Channel the rest.
I just hate flame wars and I feel like it will go back and fourth.  And who really wants that? I dont have the time or the desire to do that. And by all means.....MEN you are welcome to email me as well.  
You have every right to know also.

oxoxo
Candy
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ps I do NOT recieve offline messages.  So plese dont send them

Plz tell me the nam eof the "lady" who gave u this false info. I just hope she isn't a provider who I have helped support. Tx in advance for your help.