I am SOOOOOOO FURIOUS right now. I am very careful about who I see and ALWAYS ask for a few references. And guess what? I DO CHECK THEM. Well, here is the story.
Guy contacts me for a date, gives me a name of a provider that he has seen recently. This is the only reference he has.
I contact the Lady versus IM since I see her online. She goes on and on about how she would never and I repeat NEVER see him again. He tried to force himself on her and was rude and very pushy!!!This went on and on and I felt sorry for her. I told her I was even sorry for what she had to go through.
I recieve another email from this guy asking if I checked him out yet cause he really wants to see me. Again, gives me the email of this Lady and encourges me to contact her. She will give a good reference. Is what he said. THEN..........I read the forwarded email that this "lady' sent him saying how she is coming to town and would LOVE to see him.
Now Ladies, you know that I ALWAYS try to give a on time response to references. I know that for some ladies, no references, no date.....so I make sure to email back. And I always email a HONEST reference. Never ever would I say such a thing about a guy then go behind that ladies back and email him myself. NEVER!!!!
So Ladies, if you would like the name and email of this so called "lady" please email me for you will know not to use her as a trustworthy person. And I know this person uses this board, and YES I am talking about you. So shame shame shame shame on you!!!!!!!! You have been caught.
If you have not read Part 1 please do so before reading this. It will make alot more sense to you.
Anyways, after emailing my friends in private, I found out that i have not been the only one that this person has lied to about references.
This person tells me one thing and then changes her story fast. She told me she blocked his emails after there first date. Then tells me that he keeps emailing her. This guy has forwarded emails that she has written. First in the beginning it was, " I am coming to town, etc etc" Then "Sure, I would love to see you" THEN once i posted my thread and this guy confronted her, she changed her story and emailed him saying he tried this and that when she already told him no. And on and on. A big difference in emails. And a strange thing that she recieves these emails to communicate with him since she DID tell me that his emails are blocked.
i do believe us Ladies do have a sisterhood. Even if we have not meet, or really dont care for this person. I feel that most of the Ladies will still give references. I have a bunch of providers that I consider to be friends with. i believe them when they say stay away!!! But something was just not right with this one. So I am glad I did a little detective work.
BUT..........when I was answering all the emails, I didn't put ALL her information on it. So you might not know who I am talking about. I will gladly email you her name and website. She tends to use two names and I only put down the last one. I want to make sure that the people who want to know.....gets the right information.
I know some feel that this should be posted on the boards. I plan on posting in the Ladies Only group. And do back Channel the rest. I just hate flame wars and I feel like it will go back and fourth. And who really wants that? I dont have the time or the desire to do that. And by all means.....MEN you are welcome to email me as well. You have every right to know also.
oxoxo Candy [email protected] ps I do NOT recieve offline messages. So plese dont send them
Plz tell me the nam eof the "lady" who gave u this false info. I just hope she isn't a provider who I have helped support. Tx in advance for your help.
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