Put his ass to work!!  It would not bother me, I have a very open mind and love the Dark Side of peoples personality.

that I would be intrigued and excited by the idea. I think it would be better if I knew from the outset though. If we were together for a long time and then I found out, I think I would be upset about the lies and deceit, but not about her being a provider. As a hobbyist, I try not to be a hypocrite. I am sure I could have a relationship and be married to a provider. However it is hard to speculate how you would react to something that has not happened.