Is it possible for a provider to have a real boyfriend and also still do your work. I ask because I believe I am in a relationship with a provider who wants to exit the business, but needs a little time..for reasons I can't explain.

I have had relationships while in this industry. Some were extremely successful and others I beleieve were only pure lust for one another.

I believe unless you both trust each other 100% a hobby, provider relationship will never be more then just fantastic sex

Hope that helps
Kyla

Thanks, I agree, and we do trust each other. The sex is fantastic of course.

fantastic sex & you trust each other...wow! Sounds like you found your match!

Congrats
Kyla

Not a provider, but first-hand experience, and the answer is yes

I was (and still am) very close friends with a lady who wanted out, and to settle down with one man, but needed to keep working for a while.  She and I broke lots of boundaries, but realized we wouldn't end up together.

Our situations were such that I could never be the right one for her, but during our friendship another client fell for her, and she for him, and now she's happily retired and wedding plans are being made. She did keep working during their courtship, until he put her on exclusive, and then she got the diamond.

There are certainly different dynamics at work than in a traditional courtship, but yes, if you are both emotionally stable and have your eyes wide open, you can do it!  

And Dayum Kyla...I needs to get to Beertown to see you !!!

Re: Not a provider, but first-hand experience, and the answer is yes

Thank for this, it is a great note and great inspiration...I am totally in love with her and she with me.

I really think so, it sure feels real, and more so than I have ever felt before in my life