It is something that has bothered me for a while. I see a provider the I think is great. I love to spend time with her and she enjoys her time with me. She even calls just to talk (I told her it was cool) and she enjoys the sessions with me and all, yet I can not get her to climax. She tells me it the meds she is on and I believe her.  

It kind of bothers me. She has given me some great "O"s and t is natural to want her to get hers. I know it likely is not possible but I find myself wishing other wise. I am glad she does not fake it, and it does not bother me enough that I will sop seeing her. It just puts a bit of a damper on the fun knowing it is somewhat one sided.

Guys does it bother you if the lady you are with does not cum? If it was you that had issues but it was still fun, how would you want the lady to react?

Ladies, If it was you that could not cum would you want your clients to just accept it, or keep trying? If you had I client that couldn't cum would it bother you if he explained why?

There are many times when I can't orgasm during a session. I have been on multiple hour dates and still not able to "finish." The lady usually feels bad about it until I explain it is not her, it's me, and that I truly enjoy every other part of the session. I truly believe it is the journey, not the destination. I enjoy cuddling, massage, showering or bathing together, conversation, kissing, daty, and of course bj and fs, even if I don't climax. I have told several ladies that it is common for me not to "come" but they are welcome to keep trying as long as they want I had one lady tell me she felt guilty because I gave her an orgasm and she didn't give me one.

The orgasm is just the icing on the cake. It is great if it is there, but I can enjoy cake without icing as long as it is sweet and moist.

Of course it does NOT bother me if the working girl I've hired does not cum. I'm paying her money to ensure that I cum, not vice versa. If she should decide to pay me for my time and companionship, then that would be different and I would make sure that the working girl came.

As for the working girl's "reaction", I couldn't care less. Again, she's working on my dime, not vice versa.

I've been with a lot of women, both of the pro and non-pro variety. Frankly, every woman is different and not all can orgasm easily, especially from sex. The best sex of my life is with non-pro's, as often it's been repeated and you really get a chance to get to know the woman and what turns her on. My advice would be don't take it personally...and I personally don't really care. It's just that every male has an ego.

It appears you 2 have become friends.  Why not enjoy what you can share and not worry about whether she "finishes" or not. Like what was said before, I agree that the experience is all about the journey. Have fun with your personal need to help her finish.  I'm sure you will both thoroughly enjoy trying

I have been with some that can't finish. It does make me feel bad and guilty if I was able to finish.  I have had a lot of experience with men and ED so this is nothing new.  I talk with them and if this is a "normal" thing for them, I make sure they enjoy the experience to the fullest all the way to right before they finish. In the end, things tend to work themselves out

I am also aware of men and their egos.  All I can say to that is you guys can't have it all, but enjoy what you do get