What came first? The chicken, or the egg? I am having a problem meeting providers. I am fresh out of a long, long term relationship. I cannot see a provider unless I have a reference, and I cannot get a reference unless I see a provider. Any ideas? Suggestions??

There are some providers who will see you without references if you provide some other way to verify who you are (and not LE).

Some providers do list this kind of verification on their websites.

Good luck and keep searching....

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Agencies and some independents are willing to screen newbies (call you at work, etc.).

A guy can also be your reference. If you know anyone who hobbies, his favorite ladies will usually accept his referral.

An independent may also be more willing to see you if you book a date that includes lunch or dinner first (3 to 4 hour date). That gives her time to feel you out. Before you meet her, never mention anything close to sex.