What got you started in this game we play?

My first time came when I was 29. I was a real loser as because of some issues (shy, bad reputation, no money, weight, and I was ugly),  I was still a virgin. I decided to hire someone to end that state. I look online and picked a lady that interested me. I promptly ended up getting robbed by her and was still a virgin. I swore off escorts as thieves.

About a year later I met my wife. She was open about being an escort although I was never her client. She taught me me how to get laid. She taught me how to enjoy life. A year later we started dating and she left the business. We got married.

five years after we were married my wife caught me checking out anther lady. Normally she would make some comment like "Yes she does have a fine ass." and laugh. But this time was different.

Instead of teasing me or admiring her with me as she is bi, she asked if I wanted to do her. I jokingly said yes. She popped out a list of rules and said it is natural for men to explore but she would not tolerate a non professional relationship. The rules she handed me where:

1. No more then one date a week.
2. I can not see the same lady more then once every two months
3. Ladies must be paid only out of the budgeted money set for my entertainment, hobbies and whims. About $ 1500 a month same a hers.
4. All ladies must be well reviewed and approved by her. (She says so she knows I am not going to be busted.)
5. I can not turn her down for sex and see a lady that month.
6. I must were a cover when with the pro.
7. I must get tested for std monthly with my fun money.
8. I must keep it secret from everyone else, but must answer all her questions truthfully.
9. No date longer that two hours.
10. No gifts for the pros.

This floored me. It scared me. I had no idea where this came from. She basically pushed to see a few ladies. She set up and paid for the first one at the brothel. The first one at the brothel I never even got undressed for. I hated it ass I felt like I was betraying my wife even though it was her idea. After about my third time which was a double with her she told me she had returned to escorting.

I was devastated. I felt so betrayed. But I still loved her. We talked it out. We made it work. We set new rules for each other. It was hard and at one point I even had divorce papers drawn. But it worked out in the end. Now I learned to enjoy my freedoms and the hobby. And yes my rules have been renegotiated

I shared my introduction to this game we play, what is yours?

With me, I'm getting old and wanted to actually experience some different ladies instead of just looking at porn.  My wife is lovely and a great fuck, so I'm an asshole, but that's that.

No, he didn't literally introduce me to the hobby, but reading about him I saw a reference to TER, which I had never heard of. I was on a 3-4 month job out of state, curious and lonely enough to give it a try. Damn glad I did!

As I mentioned in previous posts on Hawaii, Waikiki has some really fine looking streetwalkers. Well back in the early 80s, I used to occasionally hang out in Waikiki a lot. Many of them gave out the usual, "Want a date?" Where you going honey?" "Need some company?" and other such comments. I admired them from far, but always avoided talking to them, as I'm a pretty shy guy anyway. When they approached me, I would mumble something and walk away. Eventually I got up enough nerve to actually talk to a few as they propositioned me, but alwaysy backed out of a date, telling them I didn't have enough money, or I needed to get somewhere, or I was just waiting for my friend etc.

One, day there was one that approached me, and I was super attracted to her, so we talked a bit, and I decided to take the plunge. She gave me a price. I think it was 40 or 50 bucks. Remember this was like 1983, minimum wage was 2 something an hour, and I was a struggling college student, so that was a lot of money. (From what I hear now the going rate in Waikiki is 200+++) Anyway I followed her to her room in a condo/hotel, and just before we enter, she tells me she shares the room wiht another gal, and she might have a date too. I was not real happy or comfortable about that, but I was already there so we went in. Sure enough there was a couple fucking on one of the beds. there were some pottted plants between the two beds as screening. she told me to get naked and lay on the empty bed while she went in the bathroom. I avoided looking at the other people and hoped they avoided me. She came out naked, I got instantly hard, she put a condom on me with her moouth and sucked for like 3 minutes, then hopped on the bed, laid back and asked me to mount her, in mish. She laid there like a dead fish. I pumped for a little while and totally lost my erection. There was no feeling whatsoever. It was like fucking a cup of water, or throwing a hot dog down the hallway.  Then she tells me, "You got to come soon or you got to pay more." I told her maybe she should use her mouth again because this aint happening. She said "Eeww, not after it's been down there!!" So that was it. I was done. About 15 or 20 minutes, and no release! She was hot looking and had a great personality out on the street, but was terrible in the room!  I walked out pissed and went home and jerked off, since I still needed a release.  I swore I would never see a prostitute again! And I didn't...for three years.

Again in Waikiki, one night, two hot gals (one blonde and one brunette) in tight mini skirts walk up to me and offer me a threesome. (I think for 120 or 150 or something like that) I had all these thoughts going through my head, about doing them, and them doing each other and all that good stuff. I said okay and we went to their room. Well turns out their idea of a threesome, was one of them would give me a cbj for a little while, (fully clothed) while the other watched, then I could fuck the other one, while the first one watched, so I had to decide who was bottom and who was top. So I decided the blonde could blow me, and I would fuck the brunette. The blonde did half assed covered blow job, for a few minutes, then I tried to fuck the other gal, who only hiked up her skirt and dropped her panties (neither got naked). Again I lost my erection and couldn't release. Went home and jerked off and swore I would never see a hooker again. And I didn't...for a few more years.

I don't want to write the whole book here. This is already too long, (The middle chapters are intersting but that's for another day Suffice to say that, I am enjoying all my experiences now with escorts, and have had some totally wonderful gfe experiences.

[Edit by mod- blacklisted site removed]
I looked around thinking (at this point I had never ever heard of such a thing as an"Escort")..."well, this is just like Ma*ch dot com" until I noticed the $$$ and thought "you mean these Biatches are getting paid to do the exact same shit I'm doing on Match...Sign Me Up!".
It was off to the races for me!!
I've had better dates (in every aspect) ever since!!!!
Thank you, boys!!

...applying for regular jobs on CL, etc got curious about the adult gigs and services section, began responding/sending pic and making $$$ and it went from there on to bp, cv, ter, eros etc etc