Ok Gents,  first off im from Hawaii, second im new at this.  Can anyone suggest to me a good provider to start off with? Preferably someone in Honolulu.  It seems as though all the good ladies require references.  Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

I am from Hawaii, and so is Twasbrillig (and we both post regularly on this board)
You could PM either of us for suggestions.  We happen to have totally different taste in providers. He is a big boob fan and I am a small boob fan So we may have different suggestions but it depends what you are looking for. I would suggest you search reviews on TER, setting the city to "Hawaiian Islands," and select your preferences as far as looks, and services. There are not a lot of escorts in Hawaii, but there are a few really good ones that have great reviews on TER and there are some great ladies from the mainland who come through occasionally. You can find ads on EROS, Cityvibe, and Backpage. But I would start here on TER, and if you find gals on other sites, then check for reviews here. If you PM me, I can give you a name of another hobby site that is kind of popular in Hawaii but can not be mentioned here.

However, first of all, I would like to say to your question on references, that of course good providers require references! If you don't have provider references, you need to look for newbie friendly providers and be willing to give up some personal information like your real name and job information. You could also join a verification site such as P411. I would suggest if you are brand new that you should  visit the "faq for newbies" board.  Read back a dozen or so pages on that board and you will probably see all your questions have been asked and answered already. You can also use the search function on the top of the board for specific topics. Also read the 'self help center" at the top right of the discussion board near the life preserver. If you have more newbie questions, feel free to ask them on the newbie board. For more general questions or hawaii questions, come back here and ask or PM one of us Hawaii dudes.

You do need VIP membership to use the PM system. I suggest you get VIP if you are not already. It is only 30 bucks a month and it will pay for itself with your first provider date. Aside form PMing, the VIP also allows you to see the important parts of the reviews, and use the reviews search features. Very important in making choices. You can always cancel your membership after a month if you are not a frequent hobbyist. You can also start gainging free days by writing reviews and sending in problem reports. Good luck. Have fun and Aloha!

Thanks will get a VIP membership as soon as I can find my credit card lol

Like Stormy says, from there, it's personal preference.
Enjoy!