I have been enjoying this hobby for more than 20 years. In all that time I have had sessions that range from ROB to GREAT sessions, (just like all of us).

There are certain things that a lady does that make it great (at least for me).

I'm wondering how many guys are on the same page as me??

OK, this is advice for the ladies,,,,,,

My name. I have a name. Let's say it's Joe. Use it. Don't call me honey or sweetie or baby. Using my name makes our time together more personal, it helps with the fantasy.

When you don't use my name it makes me think you're too lazy to remember it, and that you don't care.

The clothes. There is nothing sexier than a lady asking me to help her take off her bra or stockings or blouse. Except off course, when she is unbuttoning my shirt or struggling with my belt buckle.

I hate it when a gal says "OK sweetie, make yourself comfortable", meaning that we undress ourselves. Helping each other out of our clothes can be such a turn on.

The moaning and the big O.

I have slept with over 100 civie women. I have never heard them moan or scream the way some ladies do during a session.

If it feels good, fine, let the guy know you like it. But please don't scream and moan. Again, it destoys the realism of the fantasy.

After I cum, don't get up immediately and run to the bathroom to wash up. Lay there with the guy and let "the moment" slowly unwind.

I have this regular who usually gets me off orally with no condom. When I cum (in her mouth), she keeps her mouth on my cock for what seems like an eternity. She slowly sucks and licks and it feels great. When I'm ready to get up, she lets go of my cock, but not before.

This is why she is a regular.

Most of the ladies I've seen do not do the things I've described above.

Some do some of them, and a few do all of them, and I wish that more did any or all of them.

OK, agree or disagree???